i have been married for the past three years now , i have one yr old son ..but i think my wife doesnt care or understand me ? what should i do please help.
2006-07-23 00:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to her, to her friends if she wont tell you what she feels.
2006-07-23 00:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by felix r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more specific as to what makes you think this. Has she changed a whole lot since you got married, since she got pregnant, since she had baby boy?
Another thing, she could be depressed.... post partum depression can do this sort of thing.
Also, a lot of new fathers feel "left out" or neglected when a child comes. A mother thinks the best thing she can do for her husband is love and take care of his children, thus, she can tend to forget or ignore the husband unintentionally.
The best thing to do is to set aside one night a week where it's just the two of you alone and take her out on a date! Go to dinner, a movie, hiking, a walk while holding hands, relaxing and fun stuff like this where you can re-court each other.
Sometimes surprise her with flowers, pay her compliments, do the dishes or the laundry once in a while, ask her how she's feeling, offer a foot rub or back rub.
If you really want to keep her, delve into her female brain and figure out what she wants most and you may be surprised at how simple and easy it really is.
Another very important thing: Ask her!
Then, say I love you everytime you say goodbye and give a kiss. It's sweet. We do it every single time and believe me, it's what's helped keep us together!
Good luck!
2006-07-23 00:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nothing special, It happens, You were only two person before you got child. Now she have to play two roles at same time. So many responsibilities. But, If you definitely feel that thing from the deep just discuss with her about all you think. But, I prefer just let it go for some time. She must realize what you are thinking.
2006-07-23 02:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by feral_virgin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been more detailed.. I don't know what's the problem. That you wife takes care about your son more than she cares about you??
2006-07-23 00:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and talk it all out. Tell her exactly how you feel. Communication is the key to a better relationship. Good luck!
2006-07-23 00:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she dont! now stop crying and take care of the baby while she
has ladys night out with the girls and finds some body to have an affair with so she can divorce you and make you pay her child support ,so that her and her new boyfriend can go out every week
and spend your money!
2006-07-23 00:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her.Unless she stops talking to u,she means she loves u.Maybe she s focused on the child,and u want the same attention from her.
2006-07-23 00:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman has a child, she becomes a mother.
It could be that she focuses more on the child than you, that's only normal.
You need to talk to her & tell her how you feel.
2006-07-23 00:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down and have a talk with her. Maybe you are going in different directions. You could suggest counseling.
2006-07-23 00:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by missleyden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that your wife doesn't love you anymore? Need more info.
2006-07-23 00:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRYING SITTING DOWN WITH YOUR WIFE AND TALKING WITH HER. TELL HER WHATS GOING ON IN YOUR MIND, AND GET HER TO TELL YOU WHAT IS GOING ON IN HERS, MAYBE THEN YOU CAN UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER BETTER AND WORK TOWARDS GETTING YOUR MARRIAGE BACK ON TRACK.
2006-07-23 00:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋