I mean, is it right for them to go for satisfaction outside the wedding lock or should they keep pretending the things as they are. Just expecting honest answers from all the married women out there.
The reason: one of my friend, when unmarried, had an affair with this lady who had everything for a middle class women i.e. money, children, a good husband (as far as we thought) but still hooked up with my friend only because of sex desires. It continued for 2-3 years, till my friend got married.
2006-07-23 00:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by GS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
an affair is never right and extremely unfair. this lady and her husband needed to discuss their problems or should've entered into counseling, if they valued their relationship. your friend should have left ms. married lady alone, she was married. unfortunately some couples can't discuss sex and sometimes when they do, there is blame and hurt from it. communication is key to a successful relationship. unlike a man, if a woman is happy in her relationship and her emotional well-being is taken care of, she is not going to stray from it. most men on the other hand, have a wandering eye, even when they're in a good relationship. it appears to me there's more to this woman's marital problems, than just the inability to have an orgasm with her husband. having a fulfilling sexual relationship, is very important. sex is a time for bonding and it isn't just about the physical for a woman, it's having a connection and when a person is frustrated in the bedroom that can have adverse reactions on the relationship.
2006-07-23 00:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does hender the relationship if the woman is non-stop not getting any satifaction from sex with her husband, its kinda hard to understand, but if u can try to put yourself in their shoes can u imagine that every time u had sex.. it may be great, feels great , ect.. but every time right before ur about to climax she were to hop off or you and say she's done.. after awhile u'd get extremely frusterated having to either take care of it yourself, or just letting it go away on its own..
Do i think its an excuse to cheat on your husband , no.. but i can understand their craving for needing to be satisfied in that way. But they should be turning to each other to try and figure out what the problem is and seeking doctors help if they cant figure it out.. not breaking their marriage vow to get satified, marriage is about more then sex..
2006-07-23 07:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just as important for a lady to have an orgasm as it is for a man. She shouldn't have to go outside her marriage though, she needed to let her husband know. She could also have masturbated and took care of it herself. That is a copout!! She used your friend for a booty call. I'm sure he didn't mind though! lol
2006-07-23 07:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completely wrong and dishonest, do unto others as you want them to do to you, It will happen to her. maybe not from you but from who ever she leaves you for. And what does it say for the guys morals that she was with, he had to know she was married, no morals, its a marriage based on lies and deception, How long will it last??????????? Talk to each other and tell each other what you want during sex how else can you make it better???
2006-07-23 07:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely important for both partners to enjoy their sex life.
They need to talk to each other & work on their relationship.
I think that woman just wanted some outside of the relationship excitment.
2006-07-23 07:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me ask you this how much does it matter for a man to have orgasm in married life with his wife????
now maybe you can guess the answer
2006-07-23 07:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by zoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dont have 1 she will cheat with any 1 or just divorce u atleast thats better then her cheatin on u with diffrent guys everyday n night behind ur back
2006-07-23 07:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by personnosrep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has a prime importance.
2006-07-23 07:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters I'm sure!
2006-07-23 07:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot
2006-07-23 07:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋