my bf saw me doing salsa with another guy. i had asked my bf to join salsa but he used to go to gym. so i told him tht a very sweet guy proposd me to dance in salsa,on 12june he then saw me n sent rude, abusive taunting mesgs to me instantly. i sent mesgs to clear up tht guy isnt my bf but in vain. he gave a mesg tht he will get everythin investigatd regardin tht guy n if smthing wrong,he will never contact n reply n same thing hapnd. i kept persuadin him till 10july but no use. he didnt reply. than i mesgd tht as the days pass to this mesg ill b 4geting him. but even then he doesnt look at me. he is very jealous types since begning. once i was talkin to other guy on cell, he left me in anger n went away.but i lov him. BUT 2DE WHEN HE SAW ME I PROVED I DIDNT NOTICE HIM. NOW I HAV GOT A MESG 4M HIS SIDE AFTER 40 DAYS OR SO.IT SAYS-WHEN EVER I C UR FACE ,MY BLOOD BOILS N I FEEL LIKE THROWIN A STONE AT UR CAR.ques1 wat does this mean?he still likes me?WIL IGNORING HIM MAKE HIM CONTACT ME?
2006-07-23 00:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It means your relationship is over unless you want to end up in the Obituary page of your newspaper, the subject of a bad Lifetime channel movie, or a guest on the Jerry Springer Show.
2006-07-23 00:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by brian_hahn_32 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you know he is the jealous type and all.. why did u dance with someone else?
You caould have tried to gt HIM to dance with you rather some random guy who proposed.. Hes jealous because he loves you and since you love him too you should think of his feelings too.. Imagine how bad he feels seeing you with another guy dancing salsa..For u the other guy may mean nothing at all but for your bf it does..Just sit with him and explain that what u did meant nothing but just a dance and that you only love HIM.. Make him understand that you are not interested in other guys and that you wouldnt cheat on him as he probably fears.. Apologise for hurting him and try to compromise.. Its not wrong to have fun no but try not to hurt the man u love for silly reasons..Try to make him dance with you insteadd of someone else and you will see that even you will be having a lot more fun.. Talk to him about the jealousy thing.. Tell him u love him and he should trust youbecause u dont mean to make him feel bad.. The guy loves you and thats why he goes crazy everytime with guys around you.. Think about it for a while..and try to be in his place..How would u feel if u were him?
I hope u will fix this problem with you r bf..Oh and something else..If you dont want to compromise or cant change a lil bit for the sake of ur relationship then you should break up so that both of u can be happy..
Best of luck!
2006-07-23 00:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a healthy relationship for you. It will only get worst. If you are with someone who will not let you be yourself, what are you going to do...be someone else? How can you be happy here? Is loving him worth your misery? You simply cannot let any bf or whatever, dictate your life. It belongs to you...not him.
I am positive that there are many guys with much more maturity and class out there that can love and appreciate you for yourself. You must let your respect for yourself always be above and beyond any man's domination.
Find the courage and get away from this abusive person before it becomes too late. "To thine own self be true".
2006-07-23 00:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he seems to be in the category of the abusive jerks. i think it's unfair to treat you this way even if you made him jealous by talking to other guys. you know it really sucks when you see your girl dancing with another guy, especially the salsa! the fact that you ignored him definitely made him react. guys hate this. perhaps he is thinking that by being angry and treating you like this will make you come back to him. he is probably waiting for you to make the first move, not through messages but walking straight up to him. but to be sincere, i'm not quite sure what you have to do. i'm simply guessing what's on his mind. my advice: leave him and keep on advancing in your life. you'll feel much better.
2006-07-23 00:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by keepongrowing@guy.constantly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The third guy that answered is right, sweetie.
Your boyfriend is insecure in his own life and to prove himself a 'man' in his own eyes, he'll control your life down to when he lets you go to the bathroom alone.
A relationship that starts like yours has can and probably will, turn abusive, both mentally and physically, quickly.
He'll say he's sorry and it won't happen again after he slaps you. He'll say he's sorry and it won't happen again after he punches you in the mouth. He'll say he's sorry and it won't happen again after he puts you in the hospital. He'll even buy you flowers to prove he's sorry, but things will only get worse for you.
Jump off the street car and hit the ground runnin', sweetie, before you end up beaten half to death.
2006-07-23 00:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ignore him...i do not really think you want this man for the rest of your life...he has already threatened you..i loved my husband once and i stayed with him 23 abusive , hellish years, but one day i had had enough,, and i am happy now, but i am not very trusting in relationships right now.. and do not think i can commit anymore at this time.. a man that i want i do not think exists anymore...i am so sick of hearing fighting and abusive acts that loud noises and others peoples fights bother me.. and i have some real damage done to my physical body too..
2006-07-23 00:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is 2 am the position you stay?? It' happening 6 right here. yet, no the girl in the course of the line from me likes to bump woman Gaga at evening. to at least one factor my dad had to omit there in slippers at 2:40 5 am
2016-10-15 02:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go jealousy is to hard to get rid off and he sounds like he could blow up any minute and hit you just leave find some one better because if you dont you might regret it later on
2006-07-23 00:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by derek g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he feels like throwing stones at your car
tell him to find someone with an older car.
when violence shows up it is
time to move on.
2006-07-23 00:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to control you and you wont make any sense of it because he doesnt want you to do anything he doesnt want you to.
2006-07-23 00:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋