in this summer vacation my girl friend has grown fat.
I told her but she got tensed and got angry with me. But she looks awkward..... how do i tel her to reduce her bodly muscles...
2006-07-22 23:46:57 · 11 answers · asked by siv_ece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
b very soft n polite n in general tell her tht u wud lov her more if she reduces but if she doesnt even then u don mind...this way she wont feel bad. tell her tht u wan her to wear a dress she used to wear when she was little thin....point out tht dress n tell her tht she lookd more beautiful in tht dress. she will start on a diet or exercise u'll c...
2006-07-23 00:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by zeba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her getting angry is just a natural defense we all have when we feel "attacked" regardless if what was said to us was with the best intentions. But on the otherhand, you either love her and accept her as she is and who/what she has become or you need to walk away. Love is not about a person's shape, it's about deep feelings. You, not her, needs to figure out exactly what you want and go from there.
2006-07-23 07:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go hiking with her....or join the gym with her....you don't have to tell her unless u really want to upset her and have a fight!....just do some activities with her. Tennis is great as well to lose some weight and have fun with it!
2006-07-23 06:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by modernlifeisrubbish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her for herself or for her figure? Anyway, it doesn't matter, just accompany her to a gym and tell her you need a partner to go with.
2006-07-23 06:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, if you truly love a person, you will love her for what she is and not for how she would look. Unless of course, if your concern is her health and not that she looks awkward :-)
2006-07-23 06:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by lady in red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaah ditch the sentimental crap,screw her brains out till she loses weight,if u guys were hot and heavy why would she crave food and gain weight??
2006-07-23 07:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lolo Lovou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her you wanna start going to the gym . how duz she fancy joining you, sounds alot better than .....your getting fat .
2006-07-23 06:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threaten to dump her, and tell her to lose weight then shed listen
2006-07-23 06:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Homeless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gift her a handsome physical trainer.
2006-07-23 06:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for long walks together
2006-07-23 11:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by kittu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋