She married and divorce for the second time now and has gone through a bad breakup with a boyfriend six months ago. We have remained friends for about 7 years now and talk on the phone when she goes through ordeals. Out of the blue she tells me that she and my son will come overseas to Spain to come visit me. Everything was good and she ask me one day to give her a meaningful hug, we embraced each other and then on the last day of their vacation we had sex. We each enjoyed passionately kissing and holding one another....also during intercourse she had and orgasm....We stopped to where she laid there for a couple of minutes. We left the room without saying anything to each other. When she returned state side, she asked me if that was a setup to have sex with her.
2006-07-22 23:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by ERIC W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like baggage. Be careful she may have unresolved feelings for you and if you aren't prepared to return those feelings hers will not be the only heart you break.
Your son is still watching to see how you treat his mom the question about it being set up sounds like she may have some insecurities about the encounter and isn't sure how invested she should be
I would say this is bad because even when our minds are set and committed to one thing often our hearts do the opposite and if the 2 of you carry on in front your son his heart may also get set on a reunion it may be a good idea to keep your arrangement a secret from him and talk freely with her if your intent is a little fun you need to make sure she knows that
don't assume
2006-07-22 23:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, this is for sure a good thing. After what she did, you deserved it. But it depends on what you did to her during the thing...
2006-07-22 23:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dizzyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a real tale because if it replaced into i ought to assert staggering going to the spouse and sucker to the husband like they say marriage is a three ringed circus first is the engament ring then the marriage ring then the suffering
2016-10-15 02:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy and stop worrying
2006-07-22 23:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she used you for her gratification I wouldnt make to much of it
2006-07-23 00:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋