I miss my ex like crazy n i dunno what to do i have a boyfriend but at times i miss my ex i miss tah small things he used to do that my bf doesnt and when i was upset he knew jus wat to say to me....i really miss him...im hella scared and i feel bad....cuz i have a bf. but i was wit my ex for 5 years. I love my bf dont get me wrong how do i not think of tha ex and move on completely or was i meant for my ex..im so confused..
2006-07-22 23:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
O, that is a bad situation! and i thought mine was the worst! well, the best actually is to fall in love with someone else again. you need to take your mind of your x as your life can't continue as you are still stuck on x.
do what you ever wanted to do. but your mind is like going crazy at this stage. it's like a washing machine. you don't know which way to follow or what to do.
it you gonna tell yourself the whole time, that you can't get over him, you miss him, you'll never gonna be able to get over him. it's basically ALL in the mind. your heart is probably saying yes and your mind is saying no. this is really a tough Cookie good luck and hope for the best
2006-07-22 23:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by blommekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that EXACT....I mean EXACT same position. I was with a guy 4 a very short time (1 month)...but it felt as if we were together longer becuase ive known him waaayyyy longer. He was a jerk here and there...but I was crazy about him and still kinda am! well, we broke up in the beggining of May 2006, and Im still crazy bout him! I got a new bf and I broke up with him because I was still thinking about my ex...Thing is, my ex moved on after telling me he loved me. And I discovered that I missed my ex so much because he was my first everything. My first love, my first kiss, first REAL boyfriend, the first guiy that has ever made me cry, and the first guy I could ever trust this much!
Maybe thats the deal w/ u...u miss him bcuz u have history together and maybe he was ur first @ amny things as well. U got comfortable w/ him!
2006-07-23 06:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you still have feeling for him cause you spend 5 years loving each other. Just remember that with a new boyfriend you have a completely new person to deal with. Yes, your out of your comfort zone cause you don't know what to expect. But if you want it to work with your new boyfriend don't get hung up on comparing the new with the old....if you do that, you will risk killing this new relationship....have a open mind. Move on, lady!
2006-07-23 06:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by ERIC W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went thru the same thing,so i can well understand ur position rite now.trust me saying that forget ur ex is quite tougher than actually duin it.girls r normally more emotionally attached,which makes the situation a bit more worse.time will heal all wounds-i think thats the best option available in this case.life goes on,people come n leave ur life.just keep on telling urself dis.and if u think u r still in luv wid ur ex,talk to him and dont betray ur bf..take care!!
2006-07-23 06:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hon, the best way to get over one man is to get under another one!
2006-07-23 06:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by airportfireman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time and you'll get over it. trust me i went through the same thing. men are retarded
2006-07-23 06:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋