i always womdered what people really thinKabout guys like me.
I was managing a bar and we hired a new waitress. she was 25 married with three kids. when I heard that i was thinking hell no. but when i found out she was real cool, beautiful, in college, a great cook, a kept every thing clean at all times..i had to have her. I did everything i could do to get. I did end up getting her,and four year later and im still happy i got her.
The bad part is that I destroyed a man. Till this day he is all f...ed up. He got real skinny, wont date, still talkes about it, drinks alot.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
2006-07-22 22:16:25 · 23 answers · asked by MILO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In ten years or less you will find this answer. You will be posting "Is it wrong that another man stole my wife after this many years?????????"
2006-07-24 01:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your scum thats what i think.. i think you have zero respect for marriage vows and family to be completely willing to destroy anothers family.. not once have i heard u regret doing what you did to her 3 kids, u took their "daddy" away from them and they will neverrrrrrrr have their "FAMILY" back together all because of you.. you feel bad about destroying a full grown man.. but you have no clue what you've done to those children and trust me even if they arent showing signs yet.. they will in time.. u just ****** up 3 kids mentally.. and a man.. and probably eventually a woman, .. Congrats.. u should feel so proud of yourself to wreck so many peoples lives why? because ur so damn selfish.. Your not a MAN.. REAL MEN dont do these kinds of things.. I think ur scum thats what i think, and i think she's scum for letting u destroy her family this way..
You would of had atleast more respect if u had just told her how u felt about her then stepped away from the situation, untill she figured out what she wanted and divorced him by herself.. but no u admitted u didnt stop till u had her.. Your a gutless, low life excuse for a man and i hope after years with u she will grow bored of you as she did with her husband and hurt u the same way she did him.. what goes around comes around and u'll get urs eventually..
2006-07-23 07:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You alone are not to blame for whatever happened.The woman(i presume u ve married her).If she really loved her man,she shld have stayed with him,ur action acted as a motivator,not an instigation to leave him.U've to come out of the guilt feel cos u are happy with the woman,she too is happy.Something must ve been really missing in the marriage ,earlier,which ended up in the situation now.Its u now,maybe it would have been somebody else in ur place,if not u.Its the woman aslo,and the man too,and u too to be held responsible for the whole thing,not u alone.
2006-07-23 06:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by aquarian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's sad that he has taking this so hard and to say what you did was ok isn't right either. But the truth is if she was really happy with him she wouldn't have left him. So maybe there were problems you didn't know about and if you both are happy and still in love that's great. His just going to have to except that facts and deal with them.
2006-07-23 05:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is kinda rough for the other guy. But you weren't the only one who made the decision. The gal did as well. Just hope that you are both happy. Oh, and by the way, I DO believe in Karma. You said that she left her man for you? What makes you think that she won't do it again?
2006-07-23 05:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u were lousey n your girl friend,but dont worry what goes around comes around,she wont stay with u forever,and u both will get what u deserve,as for the other guy i hope he gets a better girl,than the slimey skuzzy girl u have but then u to blong together,cause ure both skuzzy n slimey.hope your lives fall apart....
2006-07-23 05:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple men! In this wolrd are alot of womans. One: you could die if he find out. Two:you will know , in time, that all women are the same. Important is how much love persist? The answer is "yes" no matter what!
2006-07-23 05:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have been a major factor in the dissolution of his marriage, but ultimately, we ourselves make our OWN CHOICE. Life got bad for him, but he could have chosen to rise up and prove himself a good man. As for you, since you did something against him, it's my opinion that you should do your best to make it up to him by doing good for him. Negative karma, the Golden Rule and the law of sowing and reaping will back me up on this.
2006-07-23 05:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Luzzie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a jerk. For one...women are not property, and the way you describe having to "have" (own in my mind) her makes me sick. For two, you contributed to messing up 3 childrens stable family lives. I hope you have a better job now, because you're going to be paying for their therapy.
2006-07-23 05:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by micropreemiemommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Stealing" a person is called kidnapping. Her going with you willingly is called either "I'm ditzy with no brain and no morals" or "my marriage is f'ed up and I don't want to be with my husband anymore". I think you are giving yourself way to much credit for being irresistible. You didn't steal her, she left her husband for one of the reasons above. I hope for your sake it wasn't #1, and if it's #2 I hope for her sake your a better man that who she left.
2006-07-23 05:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by ashton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, how long have you just been an ignorant loser? Most guys I know would love to get ahold of you....and do a slow torture, that would eventually have your heart being eaten by the family pet.....
2006-07-23 05:21:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋