2006-07-22 22:04:19 · 3 answers · asked by darwin_david2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if things seems to be beyond control living together there is a great conflict going on for sure. Discover the conflict and try to do your best of finding strategic alternatives to give some gradual resolution on this.Stay calm and give equal level of attention to your wife and the kids and give your wife a break like going on holidays for instance. Really you are trapped into a difficult situation but that is life and there will be solution to everything.
2006-07-22 22:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ lani s 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
As a previous person responded, you can't make her do what you want.
What you can do is try to come to a mutual agreement about what you both need to work on for your relationship to work. The only way you'll be able to save it is if you are open and honest about your needs, and if you are willing to really listen and change to support her in her needs.
Obviously at this point she feels you haven't fulfilled her needs, so I suggest you seek marriage counseling as soon as possible before things get any worse.
Best of luck.
2006-07-23 05:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tomis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anybody do anything they don't want to do. I don't know "why" she is living away from you. Were you cruel to her or the children? My advice would be to see if she would be willing to go for counseling. If not then just try to move on. I wish you joy, peace and happiness.
2006-07-23 05:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋