I have a brother that demands his wife submit to him by making her stand at full attention before sex with her head bowed in respect.
He makes her do it. He admits he wants more control and I guess this is how he get it. He loves his wife and gives her everything dosen't cheat on her and is attentive to her needs.
But this is what he demands.
2006-07-22 22:00:31 · 14 answers · asked by Mscott21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I have never made any woman do as such.
The most important and only relevant information for this question to be answered is missing. How does SHE feel about it? No woman should be made to feel inferior to a man. If it is part of their love games, and they both see it as such, then i find it harmless. However if she sees it as belittling or derogatory, he should discontinue the practice however satisfying it may be to him or however good he may be to her in other areas of his spousal responsibility. No demands, or control issues should exist in a mutually loving relationship. Women have been unduly subjugated for a long time. The last thing a modern male needs to do is to continue this subjugation in the privacy of his bedroom and at the expense of what should be the most important woman in his life.
What is his love about if her feelings are disregarded???
2006-07-22 22:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, is this woman lacking in brains or self-esteem or both?
Respect in marriage cannot be replaced with "material possessions or faithful partner."
So, your brother thinks himself a GOD because he "gives" his wife everything but "requires" servitude? What an *** your brother is.
OHHH I would bow one time and one time only and make sure I head-butted a certain area so that your brother "understood" why so many people think "servitude" reprehensible!
Tell your brother he needs some SERIOUS psychiactric help and tell your sister-in-law to grow a backbone.
2006-07-23 05:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By his telling you this at all shows that he has no respect for his wife to begin with, or so it seems.
Since he felt it ok to dicuss this with you, I think I would ask her her opinion on the subject.
Maybe it's something they've agreed upon for that topic. Who knows..?
I stand up for myself to anyone who might think they can treat me disrespectfully, yet find it a bit of a turn-on to be somewhat "dominated" by my guy in the bedroom.
Sooo, without more info I don't see how you can come to any kind of conclusion.
2006-07-23 05:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by unique1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any guy told me to do that, I'd tell him to take a flying leap. Of course I'm using much more proper language on here but you get the idea. I wouldn't stick around very long. No one tells me to do something I don't want to do!
2006-07-23 05:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have a happy relationship otherwise, then maybe she does it b/c she wants to please him. Is she happy with him? B/c if she is, then it's really no one's business what sick twisted fetish he wants to get off on behind closed doors. I definetly think it's twisted and I would laugh in my man's face if he asked me to do that. But if it would seriously make him happy and I know that he'd do whatever it took to make me happy....sure why not?
2006-07-23 05:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell your brother to go blow. This may make him feel this is respect for him but what about him respecting her, that is if he really loves her I don't think he does. She allows him to treat her with abuse. and yes this is abuse. Mental abuse.
2006-07-23 05:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so old days. I don't know how any woman would stand up for that ****. This is a free country. Husband or not that's bullshit.
2006-07-23 05:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa&Michael U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what everyone's reaction would be if the gender roles were reversed in this situation.
2006-07-23 05:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does it right? It must work for them. Some women prefer to be submissive.... It sounds like it works for both of them....
2006-07-23 06:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by wanderin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was`nt necesary! if they respect eachother somethig like that never happened!
2006-07-23 05:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋