2006-07-22 21:23:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is a jerk, move on.
2006-07-22 21:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you expect him to cheat on you only if you were not pretty??? Sorry to say this but that says more about you than it does about him. Whats impt is that you now know that beauty should not be the only reason to have someone love you. You have learned a valuable lesson in love. You undoubtably have assests that are far superior to your looks alone. Look on the bright side, the path is open for you to allow another to love you for more than your looks alone. By cheating on you, your bf has done you a favor. He has shown you that he has not loved you. No love is love without honesty. Is it important for you to know that?? But you don't have to thank him for that. Move on. Life has more to offer a pretty girl.
2006-07-22 21:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty, obviously has nothing at all to do with men cheating.
The most beautiful women in the world have been dumped by cheating husbands and lovers. It is the integrity of the men involved that is the factor which determines whether a man will be honest with others or become a "cheater".
2006-07-22 21:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that date only pretty girls always wind up cheating. Because that's all they care about and there will ALWAYS be a prettier girl somewhere. Don't feel bad. What you need is a man who would date you despite hairy legs, 30 extra pounds, no makeup and a bad hair cut. A man who envisions growing old together. He will not cheat on you, because he loves you for your heart.
2006-07-22 21:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by MichC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are also a retard, and have no understanding of the reality of relationships between a man and a woman.
Pretty girls get lots of attention from boys as they are growing up, but they never realize that all men fundamentally, unless they are extremely effete individuals, ultimately learn to see women as weaker than themselves.
Your boyfriend cheated on you because your being pretty is useless to him after a point.
Men are capable of self confidence that women don't really understand, because women do not enjoy the same strength, physical and emotional strength that a self confident man enjoys.
That self confidence can also turn into a terrible ego.
Men are susceptible to the admiration of women, because it heightens their awareness of their manness (I deliberately didn't say manhood). After your boyfriend gets over the fact that you are pretty and becomes bored with your stupid chatter, he reverts back to being focused on his own ego and self aggrandizement.
He is looking to recreate that feeling of MAN that he gets off of a woman's attention.
2006-07-22 21:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever try asking him, and if he did really cheat you, either there was a lack of communication or he respected you enough not to ruin it over 2 minutes of lust or could be he was always shy with you and lacked enough confidence. Be the woman you are and show him that you know how to forgive and make him realize his mistake till he apologizes. That way he ll never cheat on you again
2006-07-22 21:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by too_unconditional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a guy but I have an answer. Guys cheating have nothing to do with you. They cheat to feel good. It is a sign of insecurity. Don't let it rub off on you.
2006-07-22 21:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by lilpeppy311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a guy, but I can tell you this...
Not at all guys want a pretty girlfriend. They want a girlfriend who's pretty but who also has a personality. If she's lacking that, the physical doesn't matter as much if there's no chemistry to begin with.
2006-07-22 21:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by GlitzNGlam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are only good for conversation and getting things fixed. Other than that find out from there last relationship.
how bad they were. Guys's personalitys at the young age
has a major problem. They don't know how to "be" so they get drawn into rap and gangsta stereo-type. and they do this because it's easier to fit in with their pier
partners. So where do you fit in? Nowhere. Cause he's playin gangsta because he never learned to be himself .....He's stereo-type. doesn't even know who he is .
2006-07-22 21:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Douglas Merran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he got everything he wanted from you and now he's off getting more of the same from some new hottie. Face it: He used your body openings for his selfish carnal pleasures and you are now yesterday's news. Wise up and find a nice guy who isn't interested in what's a'twixt your legs but what you have between your ears.
2006-07-22 21:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not always a matter of u being pretty or not , guys have needs also , if he is not satisfied with u then he cheat , look for his needs and make him happy he wont look around
2006-07-22 21:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by EDWARD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋