I'm not usually one for being nervous or intimidated by other individuals. Most thing's don't scare me.. but for whatever reason, I find myself very intimidated by people who have been successful in life. Not just in business or anything, just people who have found success. I have set the bar very high for myself, and I hope to one day eventually be one of the more successful people.. however I realize there is alot of work and determination involved (sometimes I'm lazy.. but that may be because I'm just starting out my road to success and I feel encumbered by so much involved in becoming successful).
If you see me around, you'll definitely take notice that I can start conversations with anyone at anytime at anyplace. However, the same can't be said for when I'm communicating with successful people. I become intimidated and can't act like myself.
Anyone know why that is?
2006-07-22 21:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Other - Business & Finance
because psychologyly you want fast success but with less hardwork. theres is not coming easy in life, to be successful we need to work really hard.
2006-07-22 21:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by beckham2021 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens with me too... I being the kind of person I'am, have spent hours together thinking why.. I can only come to this conclusion.. Well.. I'm trying to be real successful...And when I meet a person who has already attained the class I'm trying to attain.. I feel kind of 'lesser' than that person.. I try to be what I'm not.. Trying to be perfect.. Trying to emulate that person.. So I'm all nervous and fidgety coz I'm trying to be something I'M NOT... My suggestion to you... Be the person you are at all times.. consider everybody else equal.. if somebody is successful then its because he/she has had opportunities you still haven't.. When your time comes you will be on a level plane with the person who now intimidates you.. With that mindset... and with the line '**** the world' running through your head..Keep yourself in high esteem and go about doing your stuff! Rock on!
2006-07-23 04:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by theslayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some self confidence, some motivations, that all what you need. successful persons intimidate you because they touch that lazy part of you which you enjoy it don't want to change for its easier for you to be so
2006-07-23 04:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by a_ebnlhaitham 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i've read, i think its because you probably think that you are not successful enough, that you think you are still a long way from being successful because there is still a lot to be done.
think of your own strengths. you interact well with other people. it shows you are well rounded, able to adapt to any environment.
2006-07-23 04:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcoz u respect thm.
2006-07-23 04:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋