Is it just me or isn't that a really big thing? I lost it to someone I thought loved me and now I want to regret it more than anything...and it hurts soo badly emotionally and it's been almost a year. Help...
Do I have a reason to feel soo bad? Is this normal?
2006-07-22 20:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by bubblegum0402 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i was only with the guy for 2 months. that's how long we were together. And...i just feel like crap. I feel like there is no getting over it.
2006-07-22 20:54:14 · update #1
Wow, that same thing happend to me a year ago. and i regret it tottally. but there is nothing we can do. Yes you have a reason to feel bad. And its normal. If you just gave away something, that shows you really love someone and now you regret it, then you would normally feel bad
2006-07-22 20:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by BloodyXTears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad because you trusted someone who didn't live up to that trust. Sex has great emotional repercussions, and in a way it's good you're learning that now. I'm sorry you had to learn the hard way, but I'm sure you'll be slower to trust someone's pretty words from now on. Just don't let it hold you back too much. There are still lots of trustworthy people out there, you just have to learn how to pick them.
2006-07-23 03:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. in Asian culture, losing ur V is still quite an issue although the younger generation now dun think so.
Anyway, in the future juz be more careful of who u choose to have sex with and make sure u dun make the wrong chose again.
2006-07-23 03:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's quite normal to feel bad about losing virgnity even with someone who loves you somtimes..But life has to go on..don't be obssessed about it..Other guys who u'll meet won't have a negative view because of that..Relax and be careful!
2006-07-23 03:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Fufa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all pain...really. I was with the guy for 3 years and it took about 2 years for me to get over it.
2006-07-23 03:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♫Hope♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal because when you lost it you thought it was goind to be the best time of your sexual life and scince it wasnt you regret it.
2006-07-23 03:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Francisco F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats one reason you should really get to know someone before you have sex with them. Stop beating your self up and find someone better out there.
2006-07-23 03:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a big thing.its normal cuz u thought he luved u but u shudnt have sex if ur not married
2006-07-23 03:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by pretty_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
it is normal to feel bad
2006-07-23 03:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Travis G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋