I really want her and do not want to break with her
2006-07-22 20:10:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't get physical with her until you are 18. You'll ruin your life by having pre-adult sex and possibly end up in jail or worse...with children.
2006-07-22 20:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I agree that 16 is to young to be having a physical relationship. However, and this is assuming you love her to some extent, if you feel you're ready, then as the other ppl said, ASK her, communication is the crux of the matter. If she says yes, then great, be sure to use protection, on both sides, not just one person, you can also plan it and make it really something special. BUT, if she says no, or that she doesnt feel ready for it, then you MUST respect that. Dont try and force it on her, or use the shitty line "Oh, but if you loved me you would..." because that's just REALLY low, and if she had any self respect she'd dump you. Good luck to you.
2006-07-22 20:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kismet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey honey you want to have a baby with me or get a STD tonight? And if she says no then getting physical is not what you should be thinking about right now! Seriously that is what you have to think about these days! You may think you know a person really well but having sex at a young age will make you more prone to a STD or getting her pregnant! I know that sounds crazy but hear me out please! When you are younger you are more careless and when you are older you are me mature and normally think of the consequences first! Take it from me....I was a teen mother ten years ago!!
2006-07-22 20:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16!!! I don't think you'd want to deal with the consequences if anything were to go wrong when you get physical with your girlfriend. If you truely care for her you wont demand anything of her, and you'll be patient untill the right time comes along. If you absolutely have to ask her, do exactly that ASK! Talk to her and find out how she feels about getting physical, if she is not ready don't pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do.
2006-07-22 20:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by <3__Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by physical? Sex? If so, make sure that you are ready. Now, you should have a good idea of how your girlfriend feels about intimacy. Does she feel shy or relunctant when you kiss? If so, she is not ready, even if you are. I'm not going to preach that you should wait until your older. But I will say that you must respect your girlfriend's wishes. If you are ready to have sex, you must also be ready to discuss sex with your girlfriend openly. Your additional comments "I really want her and do not want to break with her" leaves me with a very important question. Did you mean that you are afraid that if you ask her to have sex, she would leave? Or if she doesn't let you have sex, you will have to leave and find someone else who will? Your comment suggests to me that you already know that your girlfriend would not be very open and ready to having sex yet.
2006-07-22 20:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by LivetoTravel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you prepared to marry her so that you can support the child that will result from your selfish desires. Are you really thinking of the real consequences. Or do you just think your folks will take care of all that. Are you prepared to make your monthly child support payments. You could accidentally create a living being in you quest for 5 min. of pleasure. What then. Explain to the child that it's whole reason for being alive was a mistake instead of a planned event.
Got masturbate instead.
2006-07-22 20:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by trobo_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there-
You are 16 years old!! Please, think long and hard about this decision. There are diseases out there,teenage pregnacy and that is just to name a few. My advice to you is to concentrate on your education,prepare yourself for college (trade school and etc.),do some traveling (see the world),get a job (career),have your own place to live,your own car,bank account,find a nice young lady (or current girlfriend) that has a good head on her shoulders and want something out of life! Waiting until marriage would be the right thing to do. Overall, if YOU make the decision to have sex please educate yourself,use protection and be tested on both ends!!!!!!
Do the right thing!
2006-07-22 20:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by PG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see alot of you are very intrested in his quistion.
I'm telling you: Having a G.F. is nice but it's to early to get "physical" with her unless you want to lose her or get in a deep ****.
will, it's your painfull choice.
good luck
2006-07-22 20:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo! Answers. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask here to do it in the butt that way she don't get pregnant and you don't pop the cherry if she still has one. It will hurt at first you need to loosen it you using your pointing finger first then your index finger once its gets comfortable for her doing that then move one to just a the head lite short stroke at first once that gets convertible for her move it in the rest of the way in very slowly with slow and easy strokes. Now you can slow increase your speed to the desired amount. be easy shell get used to it eventually and soon you'll be able to cram it in at any time
2006-07-22 20:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Evil D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask her it's going to sound really bad and she can even get insulted (depending on how you ask her) Normally you should wait until things happend, just wait for a moment when you both feel comfortable and nobody will have to ask anything.... Patience and you'll get your reward
2006-07-22 20:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋