i just broke it off bout an hour ago and im really starting to feel it now. we broke up b/c of this stupid thing he said. i love him to death and i think we should get bak together... anyone have any thoughts???
2006-07-22 20:02:54 · 16 answers · asked by lin lin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we've been dating for almost a year.
2006-07-22 20:14:44 · update #1
Call him back tomorrow morning. Call until he answers. And don't ever let him go. Love exerts a force stronger than any anger or any fight.
2006-07-22 20:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said that, "I broke it off..." then U say after that, "we broke up b/c...", then you said, "It was b/c of somethng he said,,," da! You have to learn to allow a person to have an opinion or voice their point of view w/o being offended or being sorry for an impulsive decision that was not truly well thought out. You feel it now, because you've taken the time out now to reflect on the part you played in this whole thing. It you are the party who broke it off and your now not sure that's what you wanted to do, then you were being immature and just wanted some attention. Well, now you've got it. Be more understanding & base your decision off of hard concrete facts that you don't have to go back and revisit with regret. Call and apologize. It'll be alright!!
2006-07-23 03:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how stupid the thing he said was... If it hurt you enough to make you break up with him, then maybe it really isnt that stupid? In things like this you cant let your emotions and feelings for him get in the way of if hes right for you or not. You need to sit down and weigh the good and the bad and see if its really worth it or not. Guarenteed he's going to try to get you back though. Good Luck!
2006-07-23 03:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by kl0wnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u got it bad for him,u dont say what stupid thing he said.i think u should call him,n talk to him,if his worth the trouble for u,to write this message,then i think u should talk,thats were a lot of young n old people go wrong,n the longer you put it off the more u will hurt,good luck.
2006-07-23 03:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by kathy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i know what ur going through my ex did the same thing to me because she believed her friend over me so i think u should give him a call tell him u made a mistake and ask him for ur forgiveness u can still save it just do what u think is right and let me kno how it works out and good luck
2006-07-23 03:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by badb0y69420_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend, is really soon to tell if u love him so much or not. i think that , without knowing what he has said, that u will get back together...if he said something really bad, forget him! but think it may be a misunderstanding..what stupid thing did he say? post it again and tell us! but all lovers have tiffs, so if it was your first time u argue, discuss it with him
2006-07-23 03:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love him to death..then u should talk to him..tell him dat what he said really bothered u..if he loves u da same way..he'll understand why u broke up with him
2006-07-23 03:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by punished bc of ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the type of things he said if they hurt then no way if he was just being dumb then take a chance go for him.otherwise it could just be the after effects of a breakup
2006-07-23 03:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of "stupid thing" he said. if he called you fat, ugly, talked down to you, insulted your family/friends.. maybe it's better to let him go. if it's just miscommunication then call him and talk about it. angry breakups aren't usually permanent... it's the calm cool breakups that are deadly.
2006-07-23 03:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by sweetxirony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him to death then you should get back together with him
2006-07-23 03:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by kraftymon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋