How do i get over a childhood with an aggressive mother?

Answer 1

ur description of ur mother is a little too vague. but generally speaking...make changes in ur life to make yourself more powerful. ..such as living on ur own without any support from ur mother. learn to make good decisions on ur own and give urself time.

Answer 2

Talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. If that is not an option write her a nice but firm letter telling her how she made you feel then and how it makes you feel now. If your mother is deceased now, try writing the letter and reading it out loud and direct it to her. Abuse and aggression is something that has to be acknowledged - hopefully by both sides. If your mom is in denial about it after you approach her about it then I would suggest that you stay away from her as much as possible because she will always keep those sad emotions and belittling feelings raging. Face her then ....Some times this is all that needs to be done. sometimes therapy....depending on the time limit and dimension of abuse. Remember you are a good person and she does not have the power to take that away from you anymore

Answer 3

There is no simple or fast solution. You will need to seek professional help to truly begin assertion therapy that allows you to put you in control of your life. Otherwise, you will live your whole life always looking over your shoulder or hearing in the back of your mind her words. These are areas that a professional can help you begin to replace with your own actions and words. You did not get this way overnight and you will not be able to change overnight, it will take time, but it time well worth investing in yourself.

Answer 4

Therapy and prayer.
God can and will release you from the bondage of your past.

Answer 5

kill ur mother