I have 2 close friends but other than that everyone fights, one of my best friends hurt me bad by sleeping with my X boyfriend (who i dumped for cheating on me...) she thinks she didnt do anythin wrong i tryd to explain to her why it hurt that she did sleep with him, but she says hes single you two are over so i need to get over it... im not should i be upset with her ???
2006-07-22 18:17:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh hell ya! a best friend should never ever do that 2 a friend even if they broke up, he hurt u and her being ur best friend should not have done that. you should not even call her ur best friend becuz a "best friend" knows whats wrong and whats right and from the looks of it she did it to hurt u becuz she is jealous of u and wanted u 2 c that u r not the only 1 to get guys.
2006-07-22 18:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEA! 1, a true friend does not sleep with your man or ex and 2, your ex has no respect for you cause if he did, he would know better not sleep with your friend. It doesn't matter if u guys r not together...all that matter is that, u guys WERE, so therefore, if he wanted to go sleep around with ur "friends", he and she should've asked u to see if it's ok! If I were u, I would end this friendship with this girl who is your "friend" and meet new people. OR you can still talk to her but not as close as u guys used to be because if she can't c where she's wrong, SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN or either hurt u in another way. Who knows...she might sleep with ur husband! This is ur call...it is never to late to meet new people and a new man who WILL TREAT U RIGHT!
PS: Make the right choice! It will help u to be happy tommorrow with no worries!
2006-07-22 18:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by KissofRomance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have every right to feel the way you do and be upset with her. Just the fact that you are thinking you might be wrong to be upset with her shows that you're being a good friend. But your friend (she shouldn't be considered your best friend anymore), isn't treating you like a friend.
Friends just don't do that to each other, they don't hurt each other, they're supposed to support and help each other. I would end the friendship, because obviously, she doesn't see your friendship with her as important as you saw it. She may try to take advantage of you again and hurt you in the future.
2006-07-22 18:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Verie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend would never sleep with your X Boyfriend, and you have every right to be hurt by that. There is also the possibility that while you were with your boyfriend, she could have well had her eye on him.
you need to be careful with her so if you meet some one new or have a serious boyfriend. She will not try and ruin this one for you as well. Women get Envy and jealous of their girlfriends success with men etc.........
2006-07-22 18:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did it to him she will do it to the next guy you dump she is what you call a little nasty sneaky X friend dump her as well because she don't want to understand because she don't care thet it is the principle of the matter that she was? is? your friend let her go or she might just do it again SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! Friends don't do friends ex boyfriends or their boyfriends at all she might have been sleeping with him all along and you just did not know it because she is N A S T Y!!!
2006-07-22 18:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically your friend is right he is single and you two are over, but morally I guess its a different story. Think about it, if you stop dealing with her, it wont take anything away from the fact that she did what she did, and that the two of them may be together. If you do keep her as a friend, YOU WILL HAVE TO GET OVER IT. So its up to you.
2006-07-22 18:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Smokeahontis© 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody can tell you whether or not to be upset. obviously it hurt you so it would be natural for you to be upset. nobody especially your "friend" can tell you how to feel about the situation because they're not the ones feeling what you feel. as for the question on when to give up... i think its right to give up when the friendship is hurting you too much. when it would take more to fix things than its really worth. if you dont feel its worth it and just seem to keep getting hurt then maybe its time to end things. but it should be when you feel its the right time to do it
2006-07-22 18:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Impala_Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should part ways with your 2 best friends. they just lost your respect, your trust and your friendship. she slept with your x-bf even though you broke up, it is very inappropriate. the least she could have done was to tell you beforehand that she likes your x and that to ask for your go if she can hang out with him, she did not even try, so that means she no longer value your friendship. forget about them, start over and email me....orboom_gutierrez@yahoo.com
2006-07-22 18:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by crocifixio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dapper is right. He's gone, not coming back, so forget him. But foget her too. Let them sleep with each other until he cheats on her, hurts her, and let her deal with it...you will have moved on (away from both of them) long ago.
2006-07-22 18:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it, but you also need to eliminate her name from the list of those you consider friends, because although factually she may be right its still not something friends do to each other.
2006-07-22 18:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋