I really, really, REALLY like this guy, but I don't think he knows. Me and him are buddies and I had a crush on him a year ago. He found out, and he seemed ok with it, but I wasn't really sure. Now whenever I think of goin' out with another guy he comes to mind and I feel a little sad cause I'm not datin' hime instead. I don't think he likes me cause I'm fat. He's a little chubby too, but would that make that big a difference? What should I do?
2006-07-22 18:04:55 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you didn't feel fat would you still want him?? Its easy to love somebody out of convienence. I say go out with somebody else, get out of your comfort zone. Worse case scenario, you find somebody who will love you reagardless, or he gets his head out of his butt realizes he's lost the best thing and comes around. Confidence goes a long way!! But either way I wouldn't waste another minute on somebody who didn't appreciate who I was. Speaking as a formerly fat girl, who had a crush just the same for years. Now I'm not fat, and he's 30 living in his parents basement, working a min. wage job. Trust me it will all work out!!! lol
2006-07-22 18:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am actually going through the same situation as we speek.
Except hes skinny and Im just a tadd over weight not fat.
He is like my guy friend but I love him to death.
But I have a crush on him.
But I can answer your question...
Tell him you like him and want to be with him,tell him if he doesnt feel the same then you guys can just act as if nothing happened. Thats all you can do.. or not tell him...
theres no other choice.
2006-07-22 18:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if ur fat. guys should like girls for personality and other stuff. you should try to talk to him about how you feel or ask him out to the movies or something. maybe he will give you a chance.:)
2006-07-22 18:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think that matters but gurl u should ask him and then i think u should go out with those others guys cause if he knows u like him he should ask u out but if he dosent that means he just want to be friends thats what i think
2006-07-22 18:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by andrea_lara92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see if he likes a girl your size or does he prefers a skinny girl.
2006-07-22 18:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by dragon_the_bitch03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how u feel...see what he says and maybe he likes u too and thinks u dont like him also...take that first step and let him know u really like him good luck!!
2006-07-22 18:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A closed mouth doesn't get fed. Ask him up front how he feels!
2006-07-22 18:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by ucyimadiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all do spl check, lol! jk!
anyway bout ur ?, if he really likes u, he'll ask u out, and if not, its just not ment 2 b!
2006-07-22 18:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to love yourself in the body you have and guys will learn to like it too
2006-07-22 18:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by jb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, if he doesnt like you for you, then its his loss. not yours.You sound like you deserve a better guy than what he truly is.
2006-07-22 18:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋