I cant get a girlfriend to save my life.. Im 13 years old and all my friends have girlfriends but i cant get 1..i Feel left out and jelous...Any advice...
2006-07-22 18:03:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hey, chill out. I felt that way (though I was looking for boyfriends, but I will admit that my sexuality is still not clear to me) once. A girlfriend is not necessary to save your life, and, at your age, it would do you much better to keep on that dreaded school work. It shall pay off.
I can't force you to feel any differently, but you shouldn't feel left out or jealous. Besides, give yourself time to understand your feelings more and learn what you like most in girls. Rushing into a relationship just to do it has very drastic results. I know this first hand, and am still regretting it.
2006-07-22 18:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nerevarina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
focus on other things - school, sports, hobbies, whatever else you are interested in...eventually you'll meet someone, but forcing it to happen will only frustrate you. Keep in mind you have plenty of time to find someone - and just because your friend's have girlfriends, this doesn't mean they're any better than you...matter of fact, they probably have LESS fun...considering your age and the way relationships are at that phase in your life - you're really not missing much. Don't fret.
2006-07-23 01:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by kansas8099 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 you don't need a girlfriend. Enjoy your age.
Oh, also it could be that some of your friends they say they have girlfriends really don't. They are just trying to make it seem like they do.
2006-07-23 01:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill ! You'll get a girlfriend, you are young. Trust me one day, you'll be the complete opposite. Just remember to always treat girls with respect and be very polite. Then they will come to you. As far as your friends go, just tell them that you don't see what the rush is. They might say you are crazy, but they will be thinking otherwise. Relax and wait, you'll see.
2006-07-23 01:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl will come along,There might be one who thinks you're cute but is too shy to say so.Just be patient!
Don't rush into things. Once you have a girlfriend, then your time is not your own anymore. You have to spend time with them. and they will be in your business. If you ask me, you are the lucky one.
2006-07-23 01:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by rowdygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at your age, it will be difficult for you to look for the right one,but if you really insist, I advice you to be what the real you is. Show to them that you,re still living even without them. There are too many girls there. Try to search.... maybe what you are looking for is just at your side..... waiting for you.. Be patient.. and just pray to God. I,m sure He will answer Your Prayer..
2006-07-23 01:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by love 2 kill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rush. you are TOO young to began with. Don't be jealous. Loneliness sucks but, you have more freedom and money. Enjoy life. That way- Your friends will envy you.
2006-07-23 01:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, im 19 and just got my first girlfriend so just wait you have plenty of time to find a good girl for you.
2006-07-23 01:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by delldude405 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 13....don't worry about it. a girl will come along and then she will go and there will be another one. good luck tho.
2006-07-23 01:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by girliegirl26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait the better you'll get....Hopefully :OP
2006-07-23 01:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by karynn24_ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋