My boy friend and I brock out our relatioship a year ago, he got merry and have a son, we tolk every day just like friends is this healty? I still love him.
2006-07-22 17:47:27 · 6 answers · asked by Zorro 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Friends you could try to be with him but I don't think it's wise. You still love him and this is bad. He is married, has a family and you cannot break up someone else's relationship. Don't be a marriage breaker. You need to find someone for you, who looks at you only for you, who treats you as you deserve. Slowly wean yourself off of your old boyfriend. Don't call him, let him call only. Soon his calls will drop off when he gets no reciprocation from you. You gotta let this guy go and move on. Good luck.
2006-07-23 02:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
obviously you have low self worth. I am speaking from what I know. I went through the same thing. this MF decided to get married. He even asked me to be in the wedding. I felt like I could get no body else. I got a grip and then stopped excepting his calls.. A little old lady told me to make a fist. now try to put something in your fist! it's hard to do. God can't give you your next blessing when you are holding on to that man!
Trust...It will work out for the better!
2006-07-23 02:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Vell g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gonzalo, it all depends on what you want. If you're happy just talking with him, that's fine. But if you were to imagine your life 5 years from now, what would be different? If these daily contacts interfere with what you want to create in your life, you may have to reduce them, at least until you get on the path you want to follow.
2006-07-23 01:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think you need to tell yourself that he moved on and has a family are you really ok with just being friends for the rest of your life? you might just be leading yourself on staying friends with him, unconsusly. do you understand? ive kind of been there, done that if you would like to talk more about it with me you can im me i know it would have helped me when i went throught
2006-07-23 01:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by sdelight_192002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
I have a rule for broken relationships -- I believe I stole it from that Sex City show . . . .
I allocate 1/2 the duration of the relationship for grieving, mourning, and moving on.
2006-07-23 09:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that this is healthy for you. I think you need to move on....he certainly did.
2006-07-23 01:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋