What would you say if a 21 years old guy who does not want to kiss anyone until he gets married?

Answer 1

good for you!

Answer 2

I think I can understand a person choosing to wait till they are married to have sex ,but waiting to kiss?? Is that out of concern that kissing can lead to other things? Afraid to get caught up in the heat of the moment? Simple solution, never kiss anywhere private enough that anything of an intimate nature actually could happen.... I would also have to say that people should only do what they are comfortable doing so if the thought of kissing someone that he is not married to disturbs this 21 year old guy, then he should just not do it .Someday he may find a young lady who has waited as well and she would no doubt appreciate his patience and committment to waiting.To each their own.

Answer 3

It's probably really horrible to say, but in this age (2006) I would definitely question his sexuality. Considering that right or wrong many have abandoned the thought of sex before marriage, to hear of someone that does not even want to kiss is interesting. By waiting, does this man expect to find a woman that has done the same. The chances of that are low. It may sound a bit shallow, but compatibility with one's lifelong mate should extend to all aspects of life beyond simply personality. It also needs to include sexual compatibility that this man will never know to exist or not. GOOD LUCK WITH STICKING TO THIS PLAN!!

Answer 4

I'm impressed but I gotta say this...if he sucks at kissing...he's got nobody to blame but himself...and unlike sex..his wife will PROBABLY not have kept to his standard and will have to fix that kiss of his...and will compare him to older boyfriends...

yeah there are romantic notions to all of this..but seriously...most marriages especially those with kids typically are not as intimate or romantic as they were before kids came into the picture...so he may have signed his own death sentence no matter how good his intentions may be...yeah he'll have a few good times till that first kid comes...but I ask you this...how naive or innocent will he be when he is married? those who do not have enough knowledge tend to NOT have the info they need to know..

so one side of my mouth...great..sweet...la dee dah

on the other side..I have to question his motives and say while sweet and all that...his level of experience is zero..this is kissing..it isn't sex..and I am not asking him to kiss thousands of women...but how about having a girlfriend longer than a year? or even 3-6 months? still no kiss? how many girls signed onto that contract?

Answer 5

not even kiss anyone? that's kind of odd, but if that's what you want to do. I don't know if you'll be able to keep anyone around in a serious relationship unless they wanted the same as you. but by the looks of it, most people want some type of affection and kissing seems to be at the top of the list.

Answer 6

Seems to be that he wants to be in a none physical relationship and wants to make sure that if he is marrying someone it is because of love

Answer 7

I would be very happy to see a guy who was actually like that. I would stay with him and marry him. I'm sure he would be worth waiting for!! How sweet.

Answer 8

I think saving yourself for marraige is a great idea.
It adds to romance and sex, and shrouding everything
in mystery. I have talked to couples who waited and
they said they are so happy they did because it
was so incredible.

Answer 9

I believe it is a very valid point, and I regret destroying my own wish for that.
If this is your boyfriend (assuming that queen is a female's name), you need to respect that feeling of his.
It assures less chances of making a mistake...

Answer 10

He will have no problem finding a very religious girl who feels the same way.

Answer 11

I would say fruit. However, based on some of the other morons on this site and their "activites", I would say you're probably in one of the better positions.