I am supposed to be sad? I refuse to beat myself up about it.
2006-07-22 17:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because you didn't kill a baby, you removed a cluster of cells. And even If you did kill a baby, babies get killed everyday. In fact the US government kills babies all the time, that, and teens and adults and old people too. And I don't think they feel very guilty about it.
2006-07-22 17:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by freddievsskeletor 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You know, personally, I believe that pregnancies should go full term resulting in a live birth.
However.
I do not know your situation, your reasons for doing so, nor what kind of life your child would have had if it was indeed born.
This is a decision that you made for reasons that were important to you. To me, that is all that matters, that is, f you are ok with your decision, let all of the blather that you hear from others slide.
No matter what, what is done is now in the past. Live your life for the present and move forward. One other thought. Other people are not you and cannot grasp your reasons for your choices. What is a good choice for one person may not be a good choice for another.
May things go well for you.
2006-07-22 17:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Augie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be concerned and worried about what you did or you would not have posted this question. If you did not want the baby you should not have spread your legs to get it, but you did, If your gonna have unprotected sex then you should have to at least have the baby and let it live if not with you with a family who wants kids but who are not able to have kids of there own. You child is now being cared for by the greatest father GOD!!!!!!
2006-07-22 17:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by oggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to do the same thing about a year ago. I didn't have a choice . I knew it was a sin. I never forgave myself for it. I couldn't believe I could ever do anything remotley to that. I cried out to GOD to forgive me because I knew that I couldnt go through with the pain it caused me. I asked for forgivness is reched tears I still cried out for GOD's forgivness. I had been forgiven. GOD has forgiven me for what I have done. Because he knew in my hart everything I was appalled for. Don't let your own thinking overcome your conscience. When you get that feeling, let it come. It will. Ask for forgivness. I pray for you. No one else has the right to judge you. It's not their place. Did everyone forget about GOD?
2006-07-22 17:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by herpeche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did it for convenience, many people would be appalled by the fact that you let yourself get pregnant in the first place. If you wouldn't have wanted a baby, the best decision would've been to avoid sex in the first place.
Of course, if this were a medical necessity, then you should be OK with your decision.
2006-07-22 17:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by wheezer_april_4th_1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may feel relieved now, but later on I wouldn't be surprised if you started feeling guilty.
Why in the world did you have your baby killed, anyway? As a mother, I'm appalled that ANY woman can do this!
2006-07-22 17:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not against abortion, it's your right because it's your body and your life. Don't feel guilty if you don't want to and don't feel sad if you're not. I personally wouldn't do it, but if you weren't ready, you probably thought it was best. Don't beat yourself up, you're not the only one doing it.
2006-07-22 19:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are your own person. You have your own feelings. I have known people who have had abortions and honestly they probaly did the right thing. The child would not have had a good life. You are the only person who knows if you did the right thing.
2006-07-22 18:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you don't feel guilty :( You terminated a life. What if your mom chose to abort you???
I would strongly suggest that you ask God for forgiveness.
2006-07-22 17:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by JW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the insain views of the so called "right to life'rs" u dont feel guilty because u did what u felt was right and therefore it was the right decision as u feel no regret.....ur fine hun, dont let those who give no regard to a personal thought, feeling or opinion make u feel bad!
2006-07-22 17:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your selfish a*s killed a human being and coming on the internet to post a question like that is just showing how you have no remorse for murdering an innocent child you don't have to care now but god will handle you
2006-07-22 17:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋