my boyfriend just told me he was going to show me the trails by his house after he told me he has condoms for us to use... please... i'm not sure what to do.... he had me masturbate on the phone for him because he hasn't seen or heard me in a week...it's not like i didn't... or did... want to... but.. i'm still a virgin...i love my boyfriend... and we've already talked about marriage and stuff... he's 2 years older than i and i'm 15... and as soon as i'm 18 i'm moving in with him and everything! but... i'm a virgen and i don't know if i want to love it yet? or give it too him to show my love? please give me advice!
2006-07-22 17:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i do realize i spelled virgin wrong in the paragraph....SKIP THAT AND HELP ME!
2006-07-22 17:19:00 · update #1
ummm did i mention that he has 2 sexual harassment charges filed against him? and 1 more = 15 years? .... charges: stalking and not being aware, and touching a girl's chest ... (this chick didn't like him... i new her... and this charge was sh!t... he turned around at homecoming and hit her on accident)
2006-07-22 17:27:03 · update #2
we've been going out for 6 months... we love eachother.. and he has no std's... at all
2006-07-22 17:35:14 · update #3
Just tell him how you feel. If he is really marriage worthy then he will respect your feelings. If he truly loves you like he should he wont make you do anything your uncomfortable doing. If he pushes you, then you need to dump him because he is only after one thing. Good luck, and don't do anything your not ready for! Stick to your guns!
2006-07-22 17:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would never go anywhere remote alone with him. I'd make sure I was always around someone and NEVER ALONE. You are so young. IMO you should save your virginity if you aren't sure. When you wanna give it away you will be sure. You are obviously having doubts so take that as a warning.
2006-07-22 17:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, Just take it easy for now. You should wait till marriage before you loose your virgin. Its the Godl thing to do. And I think the guy is just a pevert and he is taking advantage of your trust. Life is just starting for you and as you grow older you will understand these things better. Patience my dear, patience
2006-07-22 17:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony4Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch this guy really quick. Get help to do it so that he knows that you are not alone. Do not have sex with him. If you are corned by this pervert masturbate the hell out of him but do not have sex.
2006-07-23 03:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advise you to say no. not because of your age. but because as you go thru life there will always be boys that tell you that you can prove your luv for them by having sex. that is a bunch of bull. and in no way proves that they love you. if anything it proves that they don't love you.
2006-07-23 07:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by horsemn52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are too young to be giving yourself away. Please, if he really loves you, then he'll wait. It sounds like he may be taking advantage of you. I suggest you find someone to consel you-a mature adult you can trust who will talk to you confidentially-about this.
2006-07-22 17:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know, just do it, sex is fun, but it will probably hurt the first time
2006-07-22 17:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by noctemcaelum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE REALLY LOVED YOU HE WILL RESPECT YOUR WISHES.
2006-07-22 17:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by happybunnyjg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it tell him no
2006-07-22 17:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by TheWonderer878398 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋