She has a guy pen pall....now I want a women pen pal. Am I wrong or not?
2006-07-22 17:15:42 · 21 answers · asked by Atypical Marvel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you aren't wrong. Its nice to have someone you don't know to talk to. Esp. if they are outta state, they can judge you but you'd never really meet them. Wanting different woman to speak to shouldn't anger her. Seems fine to me. When you start to set a meeting with your pen pal, thats another thing.
2006-07-22 17:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ca2Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There's definitely nothing wrong about having a pen pal its apparently the in thing now. Hope you don't have to fight over the computer though.
2006-07-23 00:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want one as an act of revenge? Then it is not a good reason... You wife is probably trying to get your attention by getting a male pen pal.
2006-07-23 00:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetundina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, this relationship is headed for a train wreck. You need counseling before the pen pal is a divorce attorney.
2006-07-23 00:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an old case of jealousy ;) Just curious, why the hell does she need a guy pen pal when she's got you?
2006-07-23 00:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sally Pepsi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as wrong as your wife is. But you should both have a pen pal, wether email or other wise. Either both should have one, or neither should. For just one to have one, and the other not, is wrong. Don't you just wonder what she says to hers? I'd wonder if she's flirting with him.
2006-07-23 00:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a female penpal? If it is just a revenge thing then dont go there...that is just being childish...try talking to her about how youre feeling and maybe you will get her to understand that you want this to stop and why. It is not a good thing that she has one I can tell you that is how my brother got a divorce from his first wife...
But you could just try finding out what she is talking to him about also...I mean there are programs out there that you can buy that will show you how to find out what she is saying to him...This could either show you that this is an innocent thing or show you that she is getting a little bit too into this other guy...or his is trying to get a little too far into her...if ya know what I mean...
Good luck!!!!
2006-07-23 00:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Walter J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pen pal! hahah What happened did you run out of ink!
2006-07-23 00:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.But you should be careful and make sure nothing else besides chatting is going on between your wife and her pen pal.
2006-07-23 00:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you planning on staying with your wife? If so you better tell her to tell that guy to get LOSS! If you do not in the future you might just lose your wife to a penpal because penpals can become lovers too or even husband and wife I know that she is married to you but if you are not wise she can become you EX! You guys are playing with FIRE put it out while you can!
2006-07-23 00:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋