the first time i had sex it wasnt painful and i didnt bleed? does this mean that i was sexually abused as a child? People in my family do think i was abused like this but how would i know? Why didnt I bleed my first time or any time after that?
2006-07-22 17:10:34 · 10 answers · asked by celicagirl587 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You dont HAVE to bleed and it doesnt HAVE to be painful... the bleeding was from her hymen breaking, but you probably already broke yours in some other way... maybe by horseriding or using a tampon? maybe it wasnt painful for you as you already did sexual stuff before having sex so your vagina was already stretched a little. also if you were abused i think you would know... why do people in your family think you were?
2006-07-22 17:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are concerned about sexual abuse, you can contact organizations that work w/ sexually abused children and find out what type of therapy is available and/or medical testing to determine if this was part of your past. It is amazing what a therapist can bring to the surface w/ a few visits.
Regarding the bleeding, it is never the same for anyone. Some females are born w/the hymen in place (genetic) and some are not. The breaking of the hymen causes the bleeding so if you do not have one, you may not bleed unless your partner is too big or there is excessive friction.
2006-07-22 17:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by DLR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual, you sounds very immature and under no circumstances very knowledgable about sex. No, a lady does no longer purely bleed once. some ladies do not bleed in any respect, yet some ought to bleed even for the first ten or so cases. They bleed because their hymen receives torn somewhat extra each and every time. So truly you want to get your data immediately rather of being judgmental of her. actual, you mustn't be pressuring her for sex in any respect. which will progression obviously in the courting, you do not favor to be pressuring her, pretty after what she has been by. look, she will be able to't change her previous, purely because you had to be with a virgin does no longer mean that is okay that you could opt for that she lied to you and that something very anxious that befell to her wasn't genuine. i truly imagine she merits someone extra ideal.
2016-10-15 02:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by anthony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have been sexually abused when you where a child. that might be the reason why you didnt bleed. then again everyone is different. i now what your going through ive been in the same situation. when i thought i lost my virginty i didnt bleed either. if you where sexually abused when you where a child your mind is probably trying to block it out. i had something happened to me when a was a child and had a mind block until one day it hit me that something was done to me by a neighbor. it was confirmed that it did happened when i confronted him. so i feel you hun. be careful and good luck.
2006-07-22 17:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by carrie2713 l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you not know if you were abused as a child? Also, if abuse is not the case, some people don't bleed or experience any pain.
2006-07-22 17:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women bleed the first time. In fact, not every woman experiences pain during her first time.
2006-07-22 17:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine told me that her first time she didn't bleed. Your hymen may have already been torn from an accident earlier in life. Like, falling off your bike hard, or something
2006-07-22 17:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is like this muscle, and when u have sex it breaks and starts bleeding..u can also break it when ur excercising or stretching, maybe thats why
2006-07-22 17:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hymen probably broke. It can happen just by riding a horse.
2006-07-22 17:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Adalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me, too.. i didn't bleed and it wasn't painful at all.. weird..
2006-07-22 17:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by gurl_aple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋