2006-07-22 16:48:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You never really know if he's the right one for you when you're dating him anymore than he knows you are the right one for him. We all are guilty of doing things that we don't normally do while we are dating. It is human nature to be on your best behavior and to try and impress. It isn't until we are "secure" in a committed relationship that our "true selves" come out. Unfortunately by then we have invested a lot of time and energy into the relationship.
I guess the best thing to do is to go with the flow. We don't really know what we want...we know only, what we think we want. Just be honest and pray that you are receiving honesty in return and take it one step at a time. Follow your heart but use your mind.
2006-07-22 17:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only makes you feel good, you are both on the same team, you lift each other up instead of being dragged or pushed down. He supports you and builds upon your self-esteem rather than detracting from it. You never have to worry about why he didn't call (because he will always does... unless there is some legitimate reason like a power outage or natural disaster...). You trust him fully because he has earned that trust, and you know that no matter what comes your way, that you guys are unified and will deal with it together. Any argument that may arise, you will both work together equally to find a common ground because you love each other and that is more important than some stupid fight. That is how you know.
2006-07-22 16:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard because for me, I tend to think the guy I'm with is the one. I go overboard and have to take a step back to let reality settle in. If you think about him constantly and can't get him off your mind, then you are probably going through a phase. If you think about him, but can go about daily activities, then that's better! You'll know. It's just a feeling in your heart and when it happens, you'll know better than anyone else. Good luck.
2006-07-22 16:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't know u just wait for that one list that u have of your perfect man get all checked off take ur chances. when u took ur first step no one new if u would run or break a leg. if life were easy we would all have a manual. step up to the world and take ur chances make mistakes and learn. Good luck!!!!!
2006-07-22 16:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont really think you will know right off from the start if hes the " right" one..cuz to me it always seems at first like they are the one... lol...honestly, it's about how he treats you, how he makes u feel .....you just gotta wait it out and time will only tell if hes the one for you!!
2006-07-22 16:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know if he wants to be with u 24/7 and calls u and spends alot of time with u and doesnt look at a girl the same way he looks at u thats how u know if he does same or all of thouse things
2006-07-22 16:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by michellemichellemichellemd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There wont be a perfect human in this world. Love is about learning from each other.
2006-07-22 17:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Unknown Warrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on you.... I mean no one can tell you if he is the right one for you beside you... You will just know.
2006-07-22 17:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by rrh1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he laughs wen u make a joke, finishes your sentences, when you kiss ur nipples get hard and you cant control ur body, you catch urself smillin by jus lookin at him
2006-07-22 16:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by shortyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. Think with your head. The heart is stupid.
2006-07-22 16:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by ricaca123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋