i just dont understand, how you could cheat one someone you LOVE if you really love them, then you would never ever be tempted to have sex with any other person on the earth! and if you dont love someone, then why marry them? i guees its just like so many people have affiars these days, and seriously, they should just divorce, because obviously if you ever cheated then you dont truly love your husband/wife. i just dont get it.
2006-07-22 16:42:18 · 7 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
woops! spelled guess wrong :P
2006-07-22 16:42:48 · update #1
Well, the love that was once there has gone or the libidos have changed. Don't be such a puritan. Loads of cultures accept people will not be monogamous.
I'm not condoning it but until you get married and have been for ten years, you'll never understand. Hell, Western culture is so judgelmental. Loads of people have affairs yet stay together because of the children. Go live in France or Japan for a few years and learn something of the world beyond yours.
2006-07-22 17:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so true if your going to get married you should never sleep with someone else, but some people just can't help themselves I guess. They should think about their actions before they act on lust. You should not get married unless you love that Pearson and if you cheat you really don't love your spouse. I hate when you see women or men forgiving them for what they do, if they cheat they don't love you like they say they do. It is just plain wrong.
2006-07-22 16:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes sex gets very mundane or boering and sometimes u fall out of love with ur spouse but dont want to get a divorce for the sake of the kids or whatever.
2006-07-22 16:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I don't see how anyone could do that. I could never cheat on my boyfriend! They should end the relationship if they aren't happy instead of messing around behind their partner's back.
2006-07-22 16:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people who cheat don't really love the person he or she is cheating on...
Sometimes they do, I guess, and in those cases the person is very impulsive or horny or something along those lines.
I hope you haven't been cheated on, it must suck.
2006-07-22 16:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by kcobain96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea...maybe they are crazy, or unhappy/unsatisfied in their current relationship.
i know i could never cheat on anybody because i would never want to hurt someone like that. & if anyone ever cheated on me i would just leave them and never go back!
2006-07-22 16:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do it because they want to have sex with someone else and some people do it because they suck a$$
2006-07-22 16:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by fed001001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋