i have a husband, and i do love him but ive been having dreams that im leaving him for all of his friends and getting pregnant by them, is it because me and him are having a hard time conceiving, and until i started having dreams about them i didnt find them attractive, but now they are all i can think about. am i cheating?
2006-07-22 16:40:10 · 10 answers · asked by crazyinlove5314 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I don't think you're cheating, you're probably confused and frustrated. Besides, it's just a dream! I hope it's highly impossible of you to cheat on him with all his friends.
Perhaps you should relax about conceiving for a while, the stress is not helping out either. Remember that there are a lot of ways to get pregnant of your husband. Take it easy, and keep your mind out of tempting thoughts that will only hurt your relationship.
Good luck!
2006-07-22 16:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Babadoo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not cheating, so long as you don't take it any further, since your dreams you already feel more comfortable with his friends and maybe a little excited when they are around. Just be careful.
I believe it is totally natural for a woman trying to conceive to get frustrated when it doesn't happen real soon (pregnant), and our 'genes' tell us to reproduce, we start looking for a more 'potent' partner. Not saying anything is wrong with your husband. Not indicating infidelity, what I speak of is in the sub conscious.
My advise is to take a break from trying to make a baby, no planning, no hoping, no anything about a baby for say 1-2 months, and don't get upset when you cycle, you are gonna be fine, you will have children, when the time is right.
May your future be wonderful.
2006-07-23 00:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sheila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, you can't help what you dream about. That is beyond your control. I think you are just having issues with not being able to conceive. But don't be so hard on yourself, ok? It will be ok in the end. I wish you luck in conceiving.
2006-07-23 01:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it probably is because of your troubles conceiving - your subconscious is trying to suggest ways for your body to carry on its genes. talk to a doctor (if you haven't already) and if you can get some sort of fertility treatment etc., the dreams will likely stop.
hope that's helpful
2006-07-22 23:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by visionary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what your dream is trying to tell you in you subconscious mind you have feeling for your husbands friend.
Remembering that dream are from you subconscious mind.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-07-23 00:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are just feeling insecure about being able to have a baby with your husband, i am sure that if you contact a fertility doctor and he asures you everything is fine, or tells you ways to help you concieve, you will be thinking all about your hubby and baby.
2006-07-22 23:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by maryjane1z1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in your dreams...but then again, dreams are part of your subconscious. go to a therapist to find out what's really going on with you
2006-07-22 23:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not cheating unless you take actions and make ur fantasy come true.. who do you know ur husband hasn't cheated on you ??
2006-07-22 23:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same kind of problem...although, no baby issues...i just have to remind myself that it was just a dream and not how i truely feel...its working so far...
2006-07-22 23:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by acidpluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are cheating. Have faith in god, you will get what you want (Baby).
2006-07-23 09:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by ASK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋