I used to trust my friend name x but secretly she took my boyfriend away.....what should I do know? still be close with her?
2006-07-22 16:38:21 · 9 answers · asked by panda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
actually if your boyfriend truly loves you, there is no way your friend can take him away, it's not like snatching an item off your hands. You should find out the reason why your boyfriend decides to choose your friend rather than you instead. I seriously don't think your relationship with your boyfriend is built on a strong foundation, perhaps you should put in more work to built up the relationship again if you want him back.
2006-07-22 19:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by firefly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all did you think why your boyfriend chosen your friend instead of you. I think you must really do some reflection on yourself. If you really don't know the reason, maybe you can ask around or those friends who know you well enough. Hope they can be frank with you.
Secondly how long have you been together with your boyfriend? if both of you have just started dating for less than 1 year, I wouldn't be surprised if he have change of heart . However if It is more than a year, then your relation foundation is not strong enough.
Thirdly, what is the special factor of your friend that can make your boyfriend give up on you and chosen her instead . There is something special about her which you dun have.
I think even you want to be with her as friend, she may not want to be your friend as it causes more embrassment.
2006-07-23 07:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not! be sporting, always bear in mind "best man or woman win". There will be a better tomorrow, maybe a better man comes. This is of nothing, focus your mind in your studies or career.
2006-07-23 10:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i wouldn't talk 2 her and wouldn't have her as a friend any more what kind of a friend is that takes away your man that's not a friend at all
2006-07-22 23:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her but let her no your not as close because of some dumb stuff she did
2006-07-22 23:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way she is not ur frnd.find someone who is loyal to u
2006-07-22 23:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course but only if i know her more!
2006-07-23 00:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mouna A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space.
2006-07-23 00:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by queensephora_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cuz that wuz so not right of her
2006-07-23 00:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋