A guy i know all my life.5yrs closely.He loves me.People show love by love,he shows by hate,being mean.He does love me.Fact(hes admitted it).Hes great has adopted orphanage,friend, normal.Hes 34,dr,father same,mother homemaker.Thrown out of home,in gang,no girl wants to marry gangster,hes educated,rich. Weve got bond.I reach out he responds,silent for months till i reach out.Can u explain why he being in love shows it by hate?
2006-07-22 16:25:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's is some seriously scary crap there!
Why?
I ain't a doctor and all that but I was in a gang. I loved this girl for four-frikin-years straight. Every single day, I was in love with her.
The thing was I showed me love through over-protective methods. I was a very jealous friend of hers. I cannot explain why I was like that towards her.
Maybe I loved her that much, and she had that much of a hold on me, it just pissed me off! I will never know. It was for my foolish reasons that made me and her never become an item.
She is out of my life now and I miss her heaps but I am happily engaged to another woman who I love heaps.
What I lacked? Was the hard word. Sometimes this girl I loved wouldn't tolerate my crap and would tell me off back.
I would get so mad with her because she did that but then later apologise my heart out to her.
This guy may need the hard, but polite talking to!
God Bless.
2006-07-25 03:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess cuz he dont really know what life is......he is
living in a fantasy world hes thinking that he can destroy
the world and creat it back but i guess the real power is
when u have ppl by ur side no whe u make the ppl hate
u...hes thinking that the world need hes protection but he
not even can protect his self, he better stop hes mind and
think what is good for him that way he'll cane give u love
for love ...like the normal way lol
2006-07-22 23:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Leo S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physician, heal thyself. If he's a 34-year-old doctor he should know to get himself to a psychiatrist or psychologist and deal with his personal issues. You aren't in a position to cure him, best you can do is be supportive.
You need to heal yourself, also. You may have a bond, but why are you putting up with his abusive behavior? You may be enabling his unhealthy behavior as much as helping him.
2006-07-22 23:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone else. This is a sick person. You only think you have a bond. It is in your mind only.
If you want hate, hurt, and dispair in your life, continue trying to have a relationship with this evil person.
If you want true love and happiness, find someone normal.
2006-07-22 23:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your are confussing love with being mean and hateful, if
he love you he would show his love with being a gentle man
loveing etc. not by being mean and hatful. that not love, and
i would serious think about why you are still with this man
after 5 years. time to move on someone that going to show
his love in ways that are caring, not hateful.
2006-07-22 23:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way some people just act some people act like total ***** to show effection
2006-07-22 23:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by italiandude2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just the way he is. He grew up around people treating others that way..therefore its in his nature. Explain to him exactly how you feel, hope it helps
2006-07-22 23:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by faery1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he responds by hate, then he is no good. Don't talk to him anymore. You do not want people in your life who hate.
2006-07-22 23:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe it doesnt sound like love to me.You dont treat someone you love with disrescept.What draws you to him?You have my prayers and so does youe boyfriend.Good-luck and God bless!
2006-07-22 23:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no comprendo
2006-07-22 23:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋