we chat nearly everyday, he is sweet though but he always asks me to show some skin, telling me it is a part of love, ive granted him but he is becoming more demanding wanting more and more.
2006-07-22 16:16:10 · 20 answers · asked by rowena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have to say I agree with most of the other answerers.
How old are you? If you are under 16 you should cease contact with this person immediately. Love is the last thing in his mind. You should also inform your parents or other responsible adult so that they can report this person to the proper authorities.
Even if you are you are over 16, his demands make me doubt his sincerity. You would be better off breaking contact with him before you fall any further.
2006-07-22 16:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by John H 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, you have already answered your own question, look at what you wrote and think about it! He is asking for things he has no right to ask you! How old are you? It appears to me, this man may seem nice, YOU NEED TO NOT PLAY HIS GAME, YOU ARE NOT RESPECTING YOURSELF NOR IS HE RESPECTING YOU! you can not know if he is true or not!!!! You just met him, this guy apparently knows how far he can push you to get what he wants from you! People, young etc get caught up in things such as this, ending up with results that will ruin your life or take your life, depending on how far he can convince you to possibly meet him! DO NOT DO THIS AT ALL. he is FEEDING YOU A LINE OF GARBAGE, IT IS NOT A PART OF LOVE, How much does he know about you? If there is someway to change your e-mail etc I would suggest you do that PRONTO! LOVE DOES NOT WORK THIS WAY, PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS JERK, EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU LOVE HIM. HE SHOULD BE REPORTED TO THE AUTHORITIES BEFORE HE HURTS SOMEONE AND THAT COULD BE YOU! IT SEEMS YOU ARE VERY YOUNG, IT IS HARD TO TAKE ADVICE WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, BUT YOU DO NOT WANT TO LEARN A LESSON by being ABUSED! HOW IS YOUR SELF-WORTH? Your future is far more important then getting involved with this person who is NOT telling you the Truth. DROP HIM OFF YOUR LIST! SWEETIE, DO WHAT YOU KNOW IS POSITIVE, ASK YOURSELF( IS THIS GOING TO BE GOOD FOR ME OR CAUSE ME TROUBLE ). If you can not answer those questions, go to an adult, so you will not be confused! Good Luck! PS, THIS IS THE WAY TO OPEN A DOOR TO BE ABUSED IN YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS, IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU AND RESPECT YOU IT HAS TO COME FROM YOU FIRST! I think talking to a professional and getting help to build your own self- esteem and know when you are being misused, abused etc will give you much more then this man, who apparently preys on girls or women! Report him or have someone do it for you, but admitt this is what he wants!
2006-07-22 23:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really believe u cannot really know a person until u meet them. So Until u meet this man in person u cant really know he is true.
He wants u 2 show more skin?!?! how?? photos? sounds like a pervert 2 me!!! but could b innocent?! who knows.
I would leave the showing skin unless u really want 2. (w not ask him 2 show u some of his skin?!) if he is demanding and wanting more n more then i would 4get about him. find someone else, preferably not on the net.
good luck
2006-07-22 23:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by marzipanchan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound right to me at all. If he is demanding on chat, can you imagine dealing with him in real life? Ive met a man on chat lately that I can assure you would never "demand" anything of me. A gentleman on chat would also be a gentleman in real life... and the oppisite is also true.. a jerk on chat would also be a jerk in real life.
2006-07-22 23:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by shannon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful.... over the net anyone can be anyone.... wake up, u don't really know this guy at all, just cos u chat everyday u still don't know the real him! just be very careful. And if u guys wanna meet up u might wanna tell a friend first. take care.
2006-07-23 04:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T FALL FOR HIM!
What you're feeling isn't real. You are infatuated with him, because he can be whatever you want him to be. He's not real, you can't touch him, and critique him. He can be your "Dream Guy"!
I fell into the same trap...and it wasn't a pleasant outcome. Save yourself the pain...and find yourself someone that is right in front of you, so you can look into his eyes, and smell him...and really fall in love.
2006-07-22 23:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by chic_sag79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can't see him, he is probably not all he claims to be and if he's asking to see skin on the net, he's not seeing any in his own nobody-wants-him life, be careful, he sounds like a strange bird . good advice, keep your personal life, personal, let him look at his own skin. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-23 01:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by francina i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is asking you to reveal your body to them is not sweet. He is obviously looking for more than just friendship. Do not fall for this. Tell him that if he asks you again to reveal your body, you will let the authorites know about him. What ever you do, do not continue revealing your body to this pevert, he will not stop until he sees all of you. Don't fall into the routine of "if you love me you will....." Many men use this line to groom young girls into doing things that they don't want to. BE VERY CAREFUL OF THIS MAN, HE NEEDS TO BE REPORTED TO THE AUTHORITIES.
2006-07-23 13:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Elana N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun tell the creep to do one.if he is asking too see skin he is a perv.he not intrested in you.he just intrested in getting a cheap frill.i got a boyfriend i met off internet and he wasnt like that.but i have also spoke to guys before my bf,guys like that,wanting me to bare flesh,saying they inlove with me.girl theyre just bored husbands.tell him do one.your worth more then that.and being sweet talkers is a way of getting you to bare flesh too. dont be taken in my his sweet talk.tell him no,and watch him change.
2006-07-23 02:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by lovableleachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can never be safe with people on the net forget that guy find a real man
2006-07-22 23:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋