my ex and i split 2 months ago and he still lives w/me. now he brings his new girlfriend around all the time.
2006-07-22 16:05:30 · 34 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is insecure and probably suffers from bi-polar or depression.
2006-07-22 16:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by toby w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and he split up 2 months ago, why are you still living in the same place together? Did you sign a rental lease or something you cannot get broken? Either kick him out or you move out. If it is a problem that two incomes are needed to make rent each month, consider renting out one of the rooms--but make it clear what you expect of the renter up front -- before they move in. best wishes to you
2006-07-22 16:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either crazy or very understanding. That's pretty non-typical to allow such an arrangment. However, you gave very little detail. If your not uncomfortable with the arrangement, then you're not crazy, but if you ARE and you're just DEALING with him being there, then you probably should do something to protect your feelings, like asking him to leave or leaving yourself. Are you sharing a house or apartment? Is he paying 1/2 ?
2006-07-22 16:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by aaronthetechie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not crazy, it's the situation that's absurd, weird and crazy!
you're just stupid for letting the situation come this far. what were you expecting after the 2 month break-up? a reunion of love?
expecting that the "broken love" would mend?
you should have move him out the minute you felt that nothing would make both of you come to terms anymore.
now it pains you to see him coming home with his new love. isn't that a torture? not of the heart alone but of the mind and soul!
why can't you evict him from your house? do you still love him?
do you feel jealous seeing him with another woman? if you do, don't just sit there and do nothing, fight for your right and fight for your love. and if you don't, don't just sit there, go pack his things and throw it out the window (that would be rude! just place them outside your doorstep) and move on with your life...
2006-07-22 16:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that "is" crazy, or you are a living saint! What are you getting from this relationship by the way?
I really wish you the best, though I feel like I'm waving to someone that's about to get in a car wreck!
2006-07-22 16:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy?? I would have to say a damn fool if only your name is on the lease. But if both of your names are on the lease, you may want to consider moving. Two months!! That's very insulting.
2006-07-22 16:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holly, you're not crazy. You just have to think 'more' of yourself. Who would want someone that wants someone else.... lots of really nice guys out there .... give 'em a chance. Everyone deserves someone that loves them..... life is short -
2006-07-22 16:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a good person,but sooner or later it is going to bother you.I would give him a short time frame to move out,and get on with your life.
2006-07-22 16:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by allwayshappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he needs to go somewhere else with his girlfriend because you dont feel comforttable around her our something like that tell him how you feell and if you pay the bills tell him them tell him to get 1 2 stepping or if your friends just tell him how you feel in a nice way
2006-07-22 16:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to go .NOW.Kick him out .Maybe you're letting him stay in hopes that he will get back together with you , but if he has other girlfriends , he should have his own place.
2006-07-22 16:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Naughty 'n' Nice Scorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once read that only a sane man questions his sanity...
In this case, however, I would have to say, no...from the information you are giving, you aren't crazy...you're a doormat.
kick him OUT! He is using you!!!!
Take it from a former doormat ;o)
2006-07-22 16:11:24 · answer #11 · answered by mynx326 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋