im kind of a dork and the popular girls (alli gretchen and sammi) always treat me like dirt! any tips on how i can at least avoid them without them coming up to me and pointing out every pimple on my face?
2006-07-22 16:02:25 · 6 answers · asked by Vallerie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Next time those girls come up to just look at them...and walk away..and if they say anything..just ignore..dont let girls like them bring you down.
2006-07-22 16:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your not a dork. Remember that above anything else. Period!!! That is someone else's perception of you, obviously because they feel they (alli, gretchen, sammi) have the market on being popular and all that. I know that ignoring them is harder than it is easy to say that. Does it matter if I tell you what my Granny used to say? " What you are on the outside is what was given to you freely and what you do with the inside shows the hard work you do to be a awesome person. If you can remember that what they say or how they treat you is not, and I do mean is not the true definition of you. It is there's looking through glasses caked in mud. Your the only one that gets to decide how great you are. SO DECIDE ALREADY, CUZ YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!
Is there someone you can buddy up with so maybe you won't feel outnumbered? If your concerned about your face breaking out look into watching more of what you eat to see what might or might not affect it. Just a thought.
This kind of senseless mean stuff bothers me terrible. I watched my son and then my oldest step-daughter suffer terribly at the hands of their peers. But if you can find someone to help you through this let me tell you when you get out on the other end you're going to be beautiful/handsome and a terrific person. My son got through school and now makes more money and is more successful than his peers and adults my age. I wish you well and hope you find an answer along with much happiness.
2006-07-22 23:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirlup64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhhhh I also was a dork. You'd be surpried at what I found out. These girls only pick on you because as hard as it may seem they are really jealous of you. See you don't worry about covering up your pimples or trying to fit in with the incrowd you are yourself and you seem like you are comfortable with being who you are. Unlike them they try their best to be something so fake. All you have to do is continue being yourself and not let what they say get to you. Most important don't let them no it bothers you that will only make things worse. Now with the pimples to get rid of them try Proactive and also try watching what you eat alot of chocolate and soda and many other kinda sweets can cause break outs. Thats one thing I learned and after I let up on all the junk food I not only had a clear face but I looked and felt alot better. So you just hang in there doll and everything will be alright. I wish you luck!
2006-07-22 23:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the only way they are going to leave you alone is if you stand up for yourself. Say something back to them. They pick on you because they know they can. Just think of a smart come back. They'll think about it twice next time.
2006-07-22 23:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by miniMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concealer, a fashion magazine, a few hundred dollars and a trip to Abercrombie, Hollister and Aeropostale!
2006-07-22 23:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirl91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them bother you. You are who you are, be proud of that. You are the better person here, you don't go around and tease others. Just tell them that you really don't care what they think. If they think it isn't bothering you, it won't be fun for them anymore and they'll stop.
2006-07-22 23:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋