im only 15, and i have an incecurity about the size of my chest. every other girl my age are getting bigger chests, buy ive stalled at a size A bra. my boyfriend (luckily) loves me for me, but i dont feel very feminine because my chest is so small. sure i have a pretty face, but its not like i want size D bra, i just want to feel more like a woman. small chests runs in my family, my mom my sis, etc. so guyz, do u like girls less because they have a small chest? do u think its not appealing to have a small chest? oh and please give good answers, this is really a touchy subject for me.
2006-07-22 15:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Sarah!
Sure there are guys who are fixated on a woman's chest, and unfortunately for you, many of those guys are about 15 years old. Later you'll discover that some guys never get past the sexual maturity of a 15 year old, no matter how old they get to be.
I guess it makes sense if you think about it - when you're just starting to become interested in this whole mysterious business of "sex", you look over at the girls and "hey, there's one pretty obvious difference between the boys and the girls right there."
Like I said, some guys never grow up, but for most of us, as we mature, we start to realize that the kind of relationship that can lead to years and years of being together is not all that dependent on the size of a woman's mammary glands. Whether it's your current boyfriend, or a guy you meet down the road - the man that you wind up spending your life with (hopefully) will appreciate you for the things that matter - things like your sense of humor, your intelligence, your interest and knowledge about topics that the two of you share in common, your morals and ethics, your beliefs about those touchy subjects like religion and politics, and on and on and on.
Some guys might dream of waking up next to Dolly Partonesque boobs every day for the rest of their lives, but the fact of the matter is that what's in a girl's heart and mind are a lot more important that what's on her chest.
Somewhere down the road, you're going to hook up with a guy who loves you for what and who you are - not for your bra size. There will be some guys - certainly now, and probably there always will be maturation-stunted guys who judge you by your chest size, but they're not worth your time, anyway.
Remember - you're not defined by your boobs, and any guy who thinks so is a bigger boob than you're ever going to be!
2006-07-22 16:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by NotAnyoneYouKnow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly frank, I've been with women who were very ample up top and I've been women who, if they rubbed their chests with calamine lotion, those bumps would be gone in the morning. It's not what size bra she fills, it's what size heart she has.
Ask your mom how she likes being smaller chested. She'll tell you all about the back pain, the stretch marks, etc., which big-bosomed women sufferas they grow older and gravity starts moving those hooters knee-ward.
If you're athletic, you should look around and count how many top heavy women are running track for your school team. The cheerleaders dont even like taking on members who are too chesty, because of all the bouncing and hopping they have to do. Bouncing boobs get sore after a while.
Besides, you're only 15. You still have as much as 6 more years to make "mountains out of molehills". You might try pectoral-specific exercises, to build up the area beneath the breast. If you can't have larger breasts, at least you can have a great ribcage (it's how Joan Collins made her fortune).
And honestly? Don't get implants. You'll never know if the guy loves you for you or for your porn star chest.
2006-07-22 16:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for the big breast hoopla. You will be fine just the way you are. Just be your self and don't worry about comparisons. It's a trap and it's a road to nowhere land and on that mindset you will always find something about your self that doesn't compare with someone else.
2006-07-22 16:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Go Rush! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times smaller breasts are more attractive because they're usually shaped better. Also, for when you're older, you should know the smaller they are the longer they look good! I know because I'm married to a "small" woman.
2006-07-22 16:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by circledcross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear , there is nothing wrong , with your small breast,.... as long as you the feeling and sensation there, this is all about the feelings, in the short future, you can have surgery if you want to,... but tell your guy to rub them more for you , it helps then to be grown, or if you live locally I can do it for you,... as favor, but only, I can make them one or two size at least larger,...
2006-07-22 16:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by sylvester M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys prefer a bigger chest, but if you otherwise look good, especially on the inside, you will be fine.
2006-07-22 16:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with who you are not what you look like.
I find a woman much more attractive if she is happy and confident. Not because she has a big chest. just be you.
2006-07-22 16:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bugman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry...I think that the smaller the cup....the more feminine you look....think about tinker bell....she's not flitting around banging her chest into the walls or her face!! Dont worry....a good heart doesnt need to be covered up with big boobs.
2006-07-22 16:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size "A" is very sexy. yes some guys like larger breasts, some like smaller. You say your b/f like you the way you are, what's the problem?
2006-07-22 16:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, bigger boobs attact more boys. But since you have a boyfriend who loves u so much, i guess u dun need them.
2006-07-22 16:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by nothingreallymattersmuch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋