Ok there was a story on msnbc about somes parents deciding to raise there kindergarten boy as a girl, sending him to school wearing a dress and the whole 9 yards, luckly the school is trying to put it down, saying maybe gender neutral clothes..............but anyway the whole thing started for some reason after the boy would prefer doing girl things, and there wasnt much details, the boy is only 4 yrs old. When I was 4 and 5 and 6 and even up to 8 yrs old I played girl thing, because i have a older sister, a girl playmate that had 4 years on me those having 4 yrs of toys, and ideas of things to do, but the only difference is that they say the boy has a mental diease, and it will be best for him. Now I have voiced my opinion onhere about homosexuality raising out of nurture and not not nature, in which alot disagreed but I stand strong. But here is the question, what do think will happen to this boy in the future? emotionaly?
2006-07-22 15:50:32 · 5 answers · asked by Derrick 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
how do u think labeling at a earlier age effects kids the rest of there lives?
2006-07-22 15:51:49 · update #1
I dont think u all realy understand, they want to raise him as a girl, and delete the boy he is, so in the future he will be a women and not a man, but I just got done watching a interseting docmentry on discovery health of an eariler case of this happen to a set of twin, in which one was given a gender reasigment surgery, the girl was depressed, had no firends, and wanted to kill herself, this was around the time they wanted to preform another surgery on him, and he said no and if i go back to the doctor I will kill myself, so the parents decided to tell him the truth, and he was infact happier about it, and completely converted back to as nature intended. the only problem is the emotional sacares left behind on him and his twin brother, who was told the truth the same time(they were 13 at the time). The brother resently took his lifem so it didnt only scare the 1 going throught, it also scares the 1s around them
2006-07-22 16:31:04 · update #2
its gonna mess him up. at least homosexual people have the identity that they are really male or female and can choose from there on.
2006-07-22 15:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by got_deam_munalla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's too young to make the decision that their child should be raised as the opposite sex. The other kids will be merciless, and just because the boy is feminne doesn't mean he wants to be a girl, doing so could/will scar him for life if this isn't the case.
Your statement on Homosexuality is patently wrong. You are mis-informed on that. I'm not going to debate it here though, as that was not your question, but on this issue you have no clue.
2006-07-22 22:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the parents are trying too hard to be "cool"...
They should go with gender neutral until the child is old enough to have a clue on his own. Doing 'girl' now will set a pattern just as difficult to change as doing a 'macho boy'. Peer pressure is every bit as hard to face as rigid parents!
2006-07-22 23:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by toastposties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im preatty sure this kid will have some hell of a experience when soon getting older and start understanding everything. who know's what kind of man he will turn out to?
2006-07-22 22:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal for boys to prefer girl toys i think its fine my children do and i have all boys!!but he will be messed up just like his fuc*ed up parents
2006-07-22 22:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by If_OnLy_YoU_cOULD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋