2006-07-22 15:47:43 · 22 answers · asked by Bianca S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He sticks his thing in your thing---(Just like everyone does)!
2006-07-22 15:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to bring a child into the world with that kind of person?
If anything I would say stop trying to get pregnant by a total idiot and go find someone decent to have a baby with..
I have a two year old son and I have met some pretty cool guys but after a year of looking I am just now starting to date a guy because the others all smoked weed and to me that said they were trash and not very responsible or mature and I did not want that garbage around my son because when he gets older it could influence him to do it and the guy I just got with does not smoke weed or do anything else stupid which is why I am with him.
You are aware that if you have a child and the father is caught smoking weed all the time that DCF can step in and take your child? Take it from someone who has a aunt in DCF and has seen it happen
2006-07-22 16:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy_Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure you wanna do that anyway. If he lives in the same house &your state DCF finds out (by someone reporting or however) they can remove your child immediately, even if you say you didn't know. Don't take that chance & let drugs of any kind into your house. You wouldn't want him not helping you when the baby needs a diaper change after you haven't slept for 4 days straight, just because he got high & was too tired to...would you? Rethink this situation & the answer to your question would be- make him stop smoking weed! (If he chooses to do it occasionally away from home & the baby, then so be it, but you really need him with you, sober)
2006-07-22 16:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by starlightstarbright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question should be "why do you want to have a man's child who smokes a lot of weed?"
You do realize that children are a lot of work, and that it take responsibility and money to take care of them??
If your "man" smokes a lot of weed, I would place my odds that he isn't great with money, or responsibility. It would be like being a single parent, or worse yet, feeling like you have to watch both your child and your "man".
Just think, you would never be able to leave your child alone with him.
scary thought
2006-07-22 17:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Roses Abound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I both did before I found out I was pregnant (I quit as soon as I found out)...usually the sperm count just isn't as high as it would be if he didn't smoke weed...it doesn't mean there isn't any though...so it is possible to still get pregnant (I still got pregnant!) If you guys want to have a baby, I suggest he quits until you get pregnant.
2006-07-22 15:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, do not have a child with someone who smokes weed. It's not healthy for the baby. Talk to him about his weed habit first. And I know how we as women, want to have children, but make sure you're in the best situation first. You owe that to your unborn child.
2006-07-22 15:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by hollywoodqueen_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that its hard to get pregnant but why would you want to?You want a baby but don't care who the father is.How do u suppose things will be once you have a child with this guy?I will tell you, even harder and then not only you will have this guy as a problem but this innocent child will too!Thats a very selfish choice, I think you should reconsider.
2006-07-22 16:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by daddysgirl92280 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man smokes a lot of weed, you do not need to get pregnant by him. If you are a sista, please use your brain. Do not bring another illegitimate child into this world with a pothead for a daddy and no secure future.
2006-07-22 15:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by danielle26 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't!
I have learned the hard way!
My 5 year old son suffers from a learning disability, physical dysfuntion, and speech impairment.
All linked to the fact that my pot-head finace could not put the pipe down to father our child.
Needless to say, I dumped his butt 3 years ago.
But, Children's Hospital confirmed my fears.
The damage was done and all I can do now is work with him and be patient.
It can be overcome but, why chance it with a man who would rather be high than experience life with you?
Sorry to say that, I learned from hindsight :-)
2006-07-22 15:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter how much your man smokes if he's got sperm and your ovulating youll get pregnant it may have a defect on the child but youll be pregnant
2006-07-22 15:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight you think a man smoking a lot of weed is a form of birth control?,and then I have to ask are you retarded.
2006-07-22 16:15:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋