i dont know why it sounds cliche to me i had it and i dont feel bad at all, i didnt have intercourse or even kidd the person on the other side of the screen. I think thats SAFE SEX!!!!
2006-07-22 15:45:44 · 34 answers · asked by joako 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
if your doing anything behind your parnters back that they dont know about and you cant tell them, then its cheating.
just because your just typing words on a screen to someone, can be classed as cheating in my eyes.
if your not sure, show your parnter what have done and let them judge you, if you cant, then its cheating lol.
good luck.
2006-07-22 15:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's absolutely cheating. You can cheat without doing anything physical. And really, often for women, the betrayal of an emotional affair is worse than a sexual one. Sex can be just an act, but emotions are intimate - they have a real connection with another person.
So if you're having cybersex with the same person all the time, you're cheating. That's how my husband's affair started. Chatting, then cybersex, then meeting in person.
Cybersex is cheating. You're taking time, energy & affection away from your real live partner & spending it on someone else. What else would you call it?
2006-07-22 15:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by oh kate! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a committed relationship then cybersex is emotionally cheating because it takes away from the specialness of your loving bond with your mate.
If you don't have a g/f or wife then CyberSex away, and yes it is fairly safe sex, however you don't know who's really behind that sexy chat on the other side of the screen --- a bad scenario is some fat guy living in his mom's basement, or worse some minor.
But nothing wrong with two consenting adults doing what they want to do.
2006-07-22 15:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I compare it to having sex with your partener but imagining they are someone else. Is that cheating since your partner is benfiting from it? The answer is NO! Hell I love when my wife goes out and men hit on her she comes home all hot and horny and I reap the bebnfits. So cybersex is the same concept eventually they want the real thing and not a keyboard or screen.
2006-07-22 15:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, because my brother in law does it all of the time, and it causes some huge arguments between him and his girlfriend. Imagine how you would feel if your significant other was getting all freaky with some stranger on the phone, or on the internet. Besides that, there are some sick *** people out there, so it's not really safe, either!
But that's just my opinion. If it doesn't bother you or your partner, then have at it!
2006-07-22 15:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by chelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...obviously if you can't get what you need out of the relationship that you are already in then you need to find someone else, or something that will spice up your love life. There's always your trusty hand ya know, or even erotica...same concept, no other person involved. Anytime you involve another person, that's not your significant other, in anything that's sexual in nature it's cheating...
2006-07-22 15:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by khyia_dyrania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating! How would you feel if your g/f did that to you? That shows a disrespect for the other person and that shows you can't be trusted. It also shows that you feel you are lacking something in your relationship with your g/f. How would you feel if your g/f felt like she wasn't completely happy with the relationship> you need to take her feelings into account.
That is wrong!
2006-07-23 04:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by jensilver77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is considered cheating. You said it yourself, you consider it safe "SEX"
My boyfriends was signed up to a seedy dating site, he says he didnt even talk to anyone,..please.... but I was hurt and pissed an thought if he could do that, it is not far from cheating,... and they always find out.
2006-07-22 15:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pro_Dog_Trainer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women would say that it is. Alot of men. If your gf was the one doing the cybersex with someone other than YOU, would it be cheating? Would you be pissed?
2006-07-22 15:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by InnerCircle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be safe sex so to speak, but i consider it cheating if it's something you wouldn't tell your partner about. if you're cybering with someone and you are not telling your partner, then it's cheating in my book. even though you're not physically doing something, you are still sneaking it and that's just another form of cheating i feel.
2006-07-22 15:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by wilderone74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋