My girlfriend is a virgin and she feels a lot of pain if I try to penetrate her. Have been tryin (in vain) for a few days now. Can't force myself to enter with her so much in pain.
Now she feels that there is something wrong with her as she said she never heard of anyone with this kind of problem. And she feels really bad about this.
Any advice?
2006-07-22 15:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
The spelling is to fool immature users.
2006-07-22 15:32:27 · update #1
Oh... and she finds it more painful with a finger. And we are both at the right age.
2006-07-22 15:33:54 · update #2
Try all of the bove. One of them oughtta work.
2006-07-25 12:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by XMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, hymen is spelled as such and not as you spelled it.
Secondly, if she is feeling a lot of pain in that situation, maybe she should see a doctor. It is supposed to hurt but not so much as it is unbearable like how your girlfriend is feeling everytime both of you try it.
By the way, I just hope both of you are of the right ages already.
2006-07-22 15:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is really young, you may need some patience and some KY jelly to enter her.
When I was 16, I tried to have intercourse with a boyfriend who had an extremely large penis and I was very in experienced as was he. We never did manage to penetrate. I found a new boyfriend when I was about 18 and managed to have intercourse with him. His penis was much smaller and he was patient and experienced.
Maybe your girlfriend has an imperforate hymen and needs to see a gynecologist to help her out a little. She can be examined to decide if she is "ok" for sexual intercourse. Maybe you need to practice with something
smaller than your penis first like your finger and some lubrication and stimulation of her clitoris before you try to insert your penis.
2006-07-22 15:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ususaly hurts the first time because she's nervus, her muscles are very tense. it's very common. she has to feel comfortable, and relaxed. clenching and relaxing her muscles might help, also a good lubrication might help. tell her it's totaly normal.
Just because you'r a certine age doesn't mean you have to do it.
2006-07-22 18:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if its her first time .Shes just to tense shes not allowing herself to relax and her muscles are really clamping down and not allowing you to enter her with out pain. plenty of lube and help her relax. take it slowly
2006-07-22 17:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should see a doctor, or maybe she is acting cause shes not ready.
2006-07-22 15:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if you haven't broke threw in several days you need to grow a bigger dick.
2006-07-22 15:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women have more pain then others.maybe you both are not ready for this step.or maybe she is faking it
2006-07-22 15:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and get in there. Of course its gonna hurt the first time. you cant get around it.
2006-07-22 15:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Myk G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get medical advice if I were you guys.
2006-07-22 15:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋