ok well im "dating" this guy... well the reason that i put these " is because we actually never been on a date in like 4 months or something. its not like he didnt ask me, he asked me like a million times, but i dont think im ready. Im not actually even sure that I like him. i used to like him like for a month or something but then my friends started talking **** about him and i just couldnt see anymore of his good side. i tell him lies why i cnat go out on a date with him and stuff but im running out of the excuses....
every time when he finally understands that i dont wnat to be with him anymore i tell him that i do and then i dont understand why in da world i did that. is it that i like him but just dont know it or what?
i dont wanna hurt him cause he is like IN LOVE with me but we are only 13. early age to fall in love right? thats what i think too.
i just need help with my fellings. i cnat talk to him cause we hav nothing to talk about at all.
PLEASE HELP!!! what should i do??
2006-07-22 15:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
well i didnt finish. so yeah i dont like him and i want to let him down easy u know.
i feel like hes gonna make me seem like a freak and tell rumors to people in our school if i dump him and tell him that im not ready to date yet...
2006-07-22 15:25:01 · update #1
just tell him that ur not that into him and that you appreciate how he feels but you only wanna be friends...im sure hes not "in love" with u...13 years old is too young to truly understand love...hell get over it
2006-07-22 15:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Let him know you're not ready and your parents'll flip if they find out.
Your instincts are right on, so listen to yourself and forget the input from your friends and him. If you have a real problem getting through to this guy that you are not interested, go to your parents for help. That's what they're there for!
Coming clean will help you feel better about yourself, instead of leading him on. He'll have a much better chance at happiness, too!
2006-07-22 22:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to like this guy. You have to turn him down and not give him false hope or he won't stop asking you out. You can tell him that you are to young to date. Don't be afraid of hurting him because you will.
2006-07-22 22:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Alej 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun if he loves you like you say then you should simply explain your not quit as comfortable as it started & if he'll wait until you think it's best..he should wait...or if your sure you don't like him n-e more than be honest..don't make exuses cuz it's not only hurting him w/ out him knowin..but you r makin your selve have a hard time...
just tell him you don't feel the same way about him as u did @ 1rst....be careful on the decision though..good luck!
2006-07-23 05:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles90210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Love Huh!!! Wow
i'm 3 years older den ya'll but i havent started dating...
u need 2 tlk about it!! cuz ur youn'....kay tell 'im dis..
" hey(his name), I think dat we shud tke a brake because we r still youn'....i care 'bout u but i thnl we shud wait 'til we're more mature..u kno?"
there are alot of things dat come wit relationships( Cheatin', pregnacies, cryin', low grades, failin', droppin' out of skool!)
Thnk bout ur lives and wut u wnt 2 achieve..
I'm not gunna start 'til i'm settled half way close 2 ma dreams!!
2006-07-22 22:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ I kno' u see it!♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need some help with your feelings and tell him that you still want to be friends with him...and you just need some time to think all of this love business thru. Don't listen to everyone else ;s opinion..just listen to your heart.
trust me.
2006-07-22 22:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person really isnt worth dating unless he/she is totally open and considerate of YOUR feelings. If your uncomfortable with something, the person you are "dating" should be considerate of how you feel. After all, they are supposed to care.
2006-07-22 22:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ray A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, HE LOVES YOU YOUR BODY. YOU ARE TO YOUNG AND TRYING TO PLEASE YOUR GIRLFRIENDS. RIGHT NOW YOU LEARN TO LOVE YOU. LEARN WHAT IT IS LIKE WHEN YOU SAY NO NO THE GUY WILL NOT TRY TO CONTINUE ON AND UPSET YOU. THAT IS CONFUSING AND IN THE MEAN TIME IS IS STEERING UP FEELINGS INSIDE (PERSONAL) AND THAT IS YOUR CAST AL. THEIR IS NO KING WORTHY OF YOUR BODY OR EVEN YOUR TIME NOW. BOOKS BOOKS BOOKS, YOU ARE YOUR TOMORROW THINK WHAT IT WILL BE . ONLY YOU CAN HAVE MORE THAN A PIECE OF - - - TO SOME LITTLE HOT KID. THINK OF SELF. LITTLE PRINCESS.
2006-07-22 22:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by BEV KAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL 4GET WHAT UR FRIENDS HAVE TO SAY, BECAUSE THEY ARE HATING ON U CAUSE THEY DONT HAVE ANYONE THATS BUGGING THEM FOR DATES SO SCREW UR FRIENDS. OBVIOUSLY U LIKE THIS GUY BECAUSE UR STILL TALKING TO HIM, SO DO IT GO WATCH A MOVIE OR SOMETHING AT LEAST THAT WAY U DONT REALLY HAVE TO TALK TO HIM UR AT THE MOVIES....
2006-07-22 22:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by Faten S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just explain to him what you just explained to all of us. You are both very young and have plenty of time for dating and what's associated with it. When your time to date does arrive, please remember, no man is worth any pressure.
2006-07-22 22:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Debs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋