I only want to know if this is a normal situation. When we do have sex we have very "good" sex, but she doesn't feel like having sex the day after, she says she is dry and it just won't work. It makes me feel bad, like I did something wrong.
2006-07-22 15:03:02 · 7 answers · asked by juanfranch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Twice a week is WAY above the normal. I will list a link to show you the report. Other than that, dude, come on. It is tough I have been on both sides of the street with this myself. From all the time to once every other month. The one thing that I always made her feel is that it is just not sex I was after, it was that she still attracted me in a sexual way because of the way she looked and for my love for her. Many women feel that sex becomes an habit and something they have to do as a wifely duty. The more you complain about it, the more it seems that way towards her. If it goes on for longer periods of like none for 3-6 months, you might want to seek a professional out for the both of you to talk it out. But twice a week, be happy.
2006-07-22 17:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Charles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the operative word here is wife. bet if you think back to before you were married she probably wanted it as much as you did but after you were married it just kind of dwindled away. There is an old saying about the only food that will kill a woman's sex drive is wedding cake. Good luck buddy .
2006-07-22 22:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by mark o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normaly after a woman has a few childeren I have heard that the sex is not as good as it used to be before having kids. Now Im a woman my self. But, I guesse that all depends on each individuals.
Its not you. For some people I guesse it is normal.
2006-07-22 22:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweat mamma bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to make her feel relaxed. Nice bathe and bathe her. Rub her feet, her shoulder, or maybe just start by touching her hand, gentle kiss on the neck and tell how much you appreciate her putting up with your sh** and how beautiful she is and just let her know how you really miss her. Maybe have dinner with soft lite candlelight soft romantic music..maybe some Barry White instead of you being ready to jump her bones and wanting her booty.
2006-07-22 22:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by arburndragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her sex grive is down. There are natural herbs that can remedy that and get her on track again. You are not the only 1 to go through this. Try different things in bed also. There is a toy vibrator they sell on E-bay its called Tongue Joy!!! A vibrator for the tongue and you both can use it!!! Man this works great tooo!!!!
2006-07-22 22:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids and Job and Housework= Wife that's tired and fed up.
2006-07-22 22:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds a bit frigid to me
2006-07-22 22:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by yankeefn65 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋