2006-07-22 14:51:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I always put other people needs and wants before mine, I think I am not selfish at all.
My Mom died 9 years ago, I wanted to let go and be happy, but cant, there is always something missing, I do LOVE GOD with all my heart and I want Him to rule my life, I dont know what am I doing wrong.
2006-07-22 15:03:17 · update #1
You're unhappy because you don't know what you truly want instead, you think you want something and when you get it that isn't the real thing that you want and then become unhappy. You need to sit down and look into your life as to where you want to be in life, what makes you happy, think when the last time you were happy and go from there. Best of luck
2006-07-22 14:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that you are doing something wrong. Happiness is not always a result of something that you do or say or have. Like some others have said, you may be depressed and if this is true you must not take it lightly. It can consume your whole life and all the things you love to do will mean nothing anymore. You sound so much like me right now. I can honestly say I feel your pain. Talk to a qualified professional, but DO NOT let anyone put you in a "hospital". Call your doctor or clergy or whatever resources you have and get a referral for some help. Do it now before it takes over your life. Good luck
2006-07-22 22:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by blocheredna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a very religious person anymore but used to be. I have fallen way out of where I think I should be in God's eyes. It has been said that all of the possessions in the world can't make you happy if you don't have Him in your life. You have nothing to lose by giving God a chance......except your unhappiness.
2006-07-22 21:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by JAKESTER420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your unhappiness roots deeper than things you want. You may have some form of clinical depression, or perhaps something in your past is making you unhappy. Remember you can't mask old issues with things or marriage. you need to deal with your demons before you can move on with your life. I recommend that you seek professional help. A therapist would be ideal.
2006-07-22 22:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Q the genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can chase happiness as much as you want, but it's not found in the obtaining or achieving of things. Happiness is an other-centered thing. Try thinking more about other people's needs and not about yourself and, you'll see, happiness will come to you. Try making someone else happy. Then, you'll be happy! Give it a shot...!
2006-07-22 21:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the happiness depend on us our soul
not what we have & made
u can got a 1 milleon us by killing some one but u will never happy
& maybe u give some one els 5 us box & u will feel like u fly in the sky
make peace with ur soul
& u will feel better
GOD SPEED babe
2006-07-22 22:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recent studies indicate that general happiness level is genetic. You can improve your happiness level somewhat, but not beyond a certain range.
Just dont let the jesus freaks tell you its because you need their god.
2006-07-22 21:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have Jesus Christ? You can have everything your heart desires but if you don't have GOD you will never truly be happy.
2006-07-22 21:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by itsme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to a doctor, you could really be depressed. I hope you find an answer.
2006-07-22 21:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the bible... it could be what you are missing, not saying that you don't.
2006-07-22 21:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋