i am currently dating a psycho. im sorry, but he is. and i got a call from my ex saying that he wants me back, but i cant really trust him because he lies alot. my boyfriend now is really nice and loves me, but he is just too weird. my ex is a HOTTIE!!! he lied to me a few times, but he really did care about me. i need advice.
2006-07-22 14:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
More info please. What exactly makes your current boyfriend a "psyco". Just cause your Ex is a studmuffin doesn't make him a nice worthy guy worth your attentions. What did he lie about?
2006-07-22 14:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Steph :-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move on anyway. A psycho boyfriend is never good; a psycho friend is different, to a certain extent.
As for your ex............. go slow. Some people never change their stripes. Do you have to be with anyone right now?
I heard some great advice once....... It's possible for people to change early in a relationship, before everthing becomes established. But it's far more difficult to achieve change in people and relationships after the rules have been written.
2006-07-22 14:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird, it's not "honesty" because he doesn't know if they would still be together. He could have moved and something else could have happened. He doesn't know. Perhaps, moving to San Diego was just a perfect out for his ex and he might have broke up with him anyway. It's weird when someone constantly talks about about their ex in a new relationship. It means they aren't over them yet and really probably not ready for a new relationship.
2016-03-27 03:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u are thinking about persuing a therapyst carreer huh? what the hell are u doing with someone u consider psycho? i'll let u in a little secret, u don't get stirred up by someone who treats u nicely, buy u stuff and overall agrees with u... u want someone who is incontrollable, unpredictable, a tease... generally speaking a bad boy. the ironic part of it is that u want him back only to see if u can change him, sadly this will only turn out to be a whipped man, hence leaving u with another type of psycho... bottom line, MOVE ON B***!
2006-07-22 14:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by ametryst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex really cared about you he wouldnt have lied to you. Your ex might be hott but remmeber there is more to a person than just looks. I would appreciate that my boyfriend loves me alot. If you feel that your current boyfriend is weird..then why are you dating him? Dont play with his feelings. You should appreciate that he loves you.
2006-07-22 14:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by tweety_lover_757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if your ex lied to you b4 he could do it again I say if your bf is a psycho then break up with him and someone better than both of them.
2006-07-22 14:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Morgan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters on what your ex lied to you about. If it's really important, don't get back with him. If not, go with him. It also matters on what your boyfriend is so weird about. If he acts younger, then that is bad.
2006-07-22 14:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by fabulous singer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Sighs*
More relationship problems, eh?
Well.
Here goes nothing.
...
Go ahead, date a liar.
I'm sure you'll have a WHOLE LOT of fun waiting around your house while hes out in a nightclub with sexy topless dancers.
Or you can date your wacko boyfriend.
Who loves you, but is just plain weird.
Or just ditch both of them. There has to be a boy out there who loves you and is not completely psycho.
2006-07-22 14:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by lady lancelot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't like your boyfriend you should dump him. I would caution you that if you get back with your lying ex he may break your heart. But I don't really know what happened.
2006-07-22 14:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the one you feel is the best you know what to do and if was my X I would hope she would come back to me.
2006-07-22 14:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by thegreatone3381 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋