cause i love him but can't have him cause my MOM!!
2006-07-22 14:40:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i bet you've heard this before. if he loves you he will wait.
if you can't support yourself you have no business going out on your own and into a relationship. you've got to be able to take care of yourself first and always. then, and only then can you think about committing to someone, really.
talk to your mom and listen to her reasons; be open. then ask her to listen to you too. good luck!
2006-07-22 14:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I really think you should wait. If the guy loves you as much as you claim to love him, the relationship will last. Don't make the mistake of running away, losing your family and friends for a guy that probably won't be worth it. I made the mistake of leaving home at 15 for a guy I thought I loved and loved me. It was the biggest mistake I have ever made. He turned out to be very abusive and not worth the time of day. I think back now and realise my mom saw things in him that I couldn't. I wasted a lot of my life on him, ended up in the E.R. several times and have lasting effects from his treatment of me. Please rethink this situation and wait until you are old enough to know for sure and also know that you really do love the guy. Like I said, if he truly loves you, he will wait.
2006-07-22 14:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Frustrated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure runaway, then you will have to get a job and go to work and try to make enough money to put a roof over your head and some food in your belly. Life is not easy out on your own. Your best place is to stay at home and let your mom take care of you.
2006-07-22 14:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!!! Bad idea. My Friend did the exact same thing you did. She ran away to live with her boyfriend. Things were great at first, but in the end he ended up beating her, making her work, and he made her help him deal drugs. Her mother left to Mexico without her because my Friend would not go back home. Now my friend has no where to go. She stopped calling me a few months ago because her boyfriend would not let her talk to me. I am really worried about her and I worry about her health. Talk to your mom. Work something out. If there is no other way...then make sure that before you run away with him that you truly know him and that he is a bad person and that he will treat you well.
2006-07-22 14:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by tweety_lover_757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is the one who will love you the best and she only want the best for you. Think about yourself not about lust. I do not know what the circustances are but....... runaway isn't a great idea. Your parent loves and cares about you. It may not seem like it cos she won't let you do what you want to do. It is not the time for the bird to leave the nest and start another family.
2006-07-22 14:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by arburndragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!! That would be a stupid decision! Since you still live with your mom you are probably to young to know what love is! If you really are in love you still shouldn't live with your boyfriend. Think of it this way, if you move in with him and the relationship doesn't work out where are you going to go?
2006-07-22 14:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXX running away isn't all it's chalked up to be hun. It is the worse thing you can do. Not only is it unhealthy for you it will devestate your family. I am a mother and I would not sleep until my child came back home, I'd cry all day and life as it is would be miserable. Please don't run away. You'll be able to leave the house for good when the time comes. Good luck hun. Think with your head, not with your heart this time. XXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-22 14:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying, mothers know best. If your heart is really inti him sit down and have a one on one mature chat with your mom. Maybe you'll get her to see why you like him so much. Never run, it could destroy your relationship with your mom. Men can come and go but you only ever have one mom.
2006-07-22 14:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Do not throw away your life for something that probably will not last. If your mom still controls you then you are too young to even know what love is.
2006-07-22 14:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by thenuge426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? if your older then 18 you need to cut those strings that you have tied around you by your mum. if your not how do you know this guy is worth being with what i mean is that yor mum wants you home safe and this guy is probably a wanker
2006-07-22 14:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by ashanti g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋