i have a lot of problems but heres one?

Question

i have wanted a baby for the longest time and i just dont no what to do i mean im too young for a kid but i still really REALLY want a kid

Answer 1

I know what you mean. I felt that weird way to when I was younger - and this is before I even thought about sex! I'm going to assume that you have already began having your period. I started my period when I was 9 yrs. old. A couple years later I started thinking about having a baby. Now, I was in no way ready for a baby, nor did I want to have sex, or go through childbirth. I did think about it though - but when I really thought about it I got my senses back. We were created as humans to want to populate the world - That's how God created us. So around the age when we start menstruating is when we are able to produce children. So our minds and body tells us that we are ready to start making babies. I know you know that you are to young, and that is true. This is just your womanly hormones messing with you - an it never goes away. Some women never experience this feeling though. Some woman always feel this way. Such as myself - I would pop babies out one after another if my husband would let me, but I'm only 22 and don't have enough money for a million babies!

This was a really good question because a lot of girls feel this way but don't understand it. I hope I helped you - at least a little. Just keep telling yourself that your not ready for a baby. Good luck sweetie and have a great night!

Answer 2

Girl! Children ain't no joke. Pampers cost so much money. Yeah, they cute, but you wanna leave them where they are! I babysit for a living. I raised my mom's kids. Children are a hand full! I also got this doll from life management skills class back when I was in high school and that doll cried all night. I had to get up and provide for it just like it was a real baby. Real babies cry a lot more than that doll. I have kept new borns and they require a lot of attention. Sometimes they cry all day! Trust me, you think you want one, but it's risky. Then if you're not stable home wise or in your finances, that's another problem. Then like you said, you're too young. Teen pregnancies are bad because of the health risks you could face. You could die giving birth! It could mess you up for life...reconsider...then you wouldn't be able to do a lot with the child...and I know you don't want that. Wait until your body fully develops. It'll be better for you and for your child. Trust me. Plus with a child, you are limited to what you can do or where you can go...say goodbye to fun. Your baby is your fun, no socials...none of that. Please reconsider.

Answer 3

Of course you do. Most girls dream about becoming mothers and your time will come. You know you are too young and that's good. That means that you realize that wanting to have a baby and actually having one are two very different things. Someday when the time is right you will be a wonderful mother. If it happens too soon you may not be. Hold onto your dreams; they'll come true sooner than you think.

Answer 4

y do u really want a kid? and if ur too young then u shouldnt. trust me. it will just ruin ur lyfe. and it will also the ruin the child's lyfe. and i dont think u want that. so basically u should wait. and do as the other person said. get a job as a babysitter. srrii but this is the truth. and well im tryin to help u out and well....just dont get a baby yet if ur under the age of 18. it can ruin ur lyfe, the fathers and most likely the baby's. srry to say but this is the truth....

Answer 5

All of us have to deal with desires we can't fulfill for a while. It's a part of life, and your success and overall happiness in life is, in part, determined by how well you accept and handle that fact. It's called deferred gratification... being able to put off what we want for later and instead concentrate on what is best for us to do right now.

That being said, if you love babies and want to be around them, why not get a job at a local daycare? You can also volunteer with different organizations that serve babies or young children... I worked at Easter Seals for a while in high school and worked with a lot of children who suffered from cerebral palsy. It was very gratifying work and I think it would satisfy your longing to be with little ones.

Answer 6

No you don't. it is not what you think It is a lot of work and responsibility and the baby does not do for you, you will do for the baby and the baby does not care that you are tired or want to do something for yourself, they want what they want when they want it and you must provide.

Be young, enjoy your life and stop dreaming what would be a nightmare if it were to come true. Slow down there is a long long time to be old, if you are lucky.

Answer 7

do u have a profeesor or carreer or a 600,000 dollar job a year or do u have to go to the gov for assisstance if u do not have to go to them and making the money i have stated above or for ur parents help and ur think about not having the father in the picture also remember that u must love someone and be married before u bring a child inot this world in the eye sight of god and give it a serious throught cuz ur just a child urself enjoy life to the fully and ur young youth days travel and enjoy urslef first before u think of doin something u will regret in the long run of ur life im praying that u take my advice cuz im young myself and i have sis that have made that same mistake and throught they wanted childern but now they regret not taking my aunt advice cuz the guys did not want them anymore after the had the childern and now the childern is suffering cuz of my sis them mistakes repley bac if this any help to u

Answer 8

Chill out. I am an adult now, but I had my first child when I was a teenager. It was awfully hard and wish now that I had waited. I am a single mother now and sometimes I get jealous at people who are my age that don't have kids. You lose alot when you have a child young. I love my kids, but if I could do it all over again, I would have waited.

Answer 9

don't do it it's not as fun as it looks. yeah it's nice and it's fun to have a kid but when you don't have enough schooling to put food on the table and you wonder what kind of life you are going to give your child, it sucks. i love my son but i wish i could have waited. i wouldn't go back and change it, but i really hope i am still able to give him a good life despite having him too young. and not going to college and having to live with my parents. and working shitty jobs i hate so i can buy diapers. and having to put up with his father. don't do it please wait and use protection. when you do finally have a kid you will realize how hard and expensive it is and you will be glad you waited. and don't have a baby so you will have someone to love you because babies take alot more love than they give. wait, go to college, get married. you will be so glad you did and could give your kids two parents and a good life.

Answer 10

So the idea of being woken up at silly o'clock, not having a minute to yourself, never being able to go out with your mates because you can't ask your parents to babysit all the time, and the fact that it will reck you whole future, you'll have to think of your baby because it comes first all the time, have not much of a career..... that sounds like fun to you?

Still want a baby?