today with a shaken heart i am forced to ask this question to all those girls who always complain every now and then that "guys" are always at fault and they luv to brag about their gfs. so far i had approached twice to 2 girls with some seriouness in my mind and to my surprise i got a negative answer twice. u won't believe one of them although initially said yes but never turned up for just a cup of coffee. most of u girls out there luv delinquent guys and then u complain about guys. but when someone says in a most humble way that he likes u or luvs u, u girls never understand. why why and why ? i am wondering how do u girls decide to hang out with a guy or not !!! do u all want guys to be nasty and screw-up type so that u can have fun and then say later on that he was a "bast***". i don't wanna say anything else..........perhaps i need to change myself and be a "heart breaker" to meet someone rather than to be with someone forever.
2006-07-22 14:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
reply to sexylady22: this means i can never find true love. right and which means i have to be a flirt anyways.
2006-07-22 14:22:43 · update #1
reply to great: so u r suggesting me than young girls are "idiots" and they gain some sensibility when they get older. so perhaps every man should look for a girl who is say 10 years older than him. aha!!
2006-07-22 14:24:24 · update #2
reply to missy: oh u r somewhat in agreement with "great". aha!! so perhaps my reply to u is same as to her.
2006-07-22 14:25:40 · update #3
oh i found some good answers from : Carley, bo peep, brown eyes. thanks to u all ladies out there!!
2006-07-22 14:27:52 · update #4
a very good piece of advice from "trustnoone_ever". thanks to u too !!
2006-07-22 14:29:19 · update #5
"Jay S" i appreciate your views. i never got such views from a guy so far. thanks for your time !!
2006-07-22 14:33:46 · update #6
"bubblegum0402", really really an honest and sweet answer. perhaps, u r right. but seriously i read ur answer thrice and was more than glad. thank u for sparing your precious time.
2006-07-22 14:36:34 · update #7
Honestly...all bullshit aside...you're completely right. Girls are like that. There is no excuse for it either becuz it just confuses the good guys. I'm sorry that girls are like that though, I'm not going to lie, I am the same way. I guess the best answer that I could give u as to why we do that is becuz we're immediately attracted to the "bad" guys. and then they break our heart. And we keep going for them..we never learn...but eventually...a nice guy (like urself) comes along and we don't believe that ur nice cuz all of the other guys claimed the same thing in the beginning. and then we are afraid to trust and love again becuz of the fear of getting hurt. U UNDERSTAND? still that is no excuse...but it is what it is right? Some girls tho...honestly..just want to be hurt...cuz they want the attention...and they want to cry and call the guy a bastard...like u said....so...i don't kno. guess it depends on the girl. keep trying sweetheart...i guess all u can do is keep looking...and hopefully one girl will appreciate ur love.
2006-07-22 14:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by bubblegum0402 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the girls you have been dating or whatever just don't feel the chemistry with you. I have been hanging out with a guy who digs me but I really am just not feeling it with him. He has asked me to get serious with him and I say no. He's a great guy nothing at all wrong with him I just don't feel the chemistry. It is fun now but I really see no future. I do not complain about the way guys are I just state the truth. I have dated bast***s and I it really sucked. I am the kind of girl who goes for the good guys not the "bad" ones. But you do have to have chemistry to make anything work.
2006-07-22 14:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Carleyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not change yourself just so girls will like you. You just need to find someone that likes you the way you are. All the girls out there are not like the ones you are talking about. Some girls never want to be a fault that the relationship ended so they will find or make up something wrong with the guy. Just to let you know I donot like delinquent guys but I like the nice guy that will treat me like a lady.
2006-07-22 14:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are attracted to that type because they think these men offer excitement, passion, and etc. They knew what they got when they started to date them. Most women surpass the nice guy because they think of boredom. It's not right, but I guess that is how it goes. It's not easy trying to figure out women want. Hell I am one and I don't know. Lmao. Try to enjoy your life and don't worry about women. The right one will come around sooner or later. Take care and try to smile boy.
2006-07-22 14:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two types of guys like you said, the nice ones... and the heartbreakers. Same goes with girls.... Dont complain that girls always go for the bast*** when it seems like youre goin for those types too.
Time for you to open your eyes and stop feeling sorry for yourself. even though i can bet you no one else cares. Whining wont get you anywhere.
2006-07-22 14:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by dapperflapper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just going after the wrong types of girls..I think this is more dependant on age the younger a girl is the more superficial she will most likely be..try an older woman..see what happens. I guess I do not know how old you are, but this is my suggestion anyways.
2006-07-22 14:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by hahaha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are emotional creatures they want a bad boy that can stick up for them and won't take crap but they also want a romantic that will spoil them we can live to be a 100 and still never understand them my best advice find a girl that goes to church or try to be a little of both a bad boy but a romantic at the same time
2006-07-22 14:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jay S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and women love 'projects' as well. Maybe because its a challange? Most of the time we learn as we get older, and burned a few times.
2006-07-22 14:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey welcome to the world... thats just how it is andi woudlnt waste my time wondering why.. becuae you will end up more hurt and confused by the wondering and things
2006-07-22 14:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋