He is away temporarily on work, but has said that we're going shopping for my engagement ring soon (I want to be involved in the shopping!)..
So w/him proposing, shouldn't he be asking the question about converting? He has talked about how "our kids will be Jewish", and just a few nights ago he said something about a Jewish wedding.
Is he putting the carriage before the horse? Or is it just not the right timing?
*I haven't told him this, but I think it would be great to convert. I just want him to ask me w/out having to bring it up myself.
2006-07-22 14:17:35 · 8 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
He probably doesn't want to put any pressure on you by asking. It would be a wonderful surprise for him if you could just tell him.
2006-07-22 14:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to convert so badly? Clearly he dose not really care about having Jewish children if he is not marring a Jewish spouse.
no offense but maybe you should find someone with common faith or convert without him.
2006-07-23 01:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Gamla Joe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not act like this. This is why marriages fail. Why should he ask you to convert; it seems apparent you have lead him to believe that you would. This is a game, stop it now.
2006-07-22 21:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better bring it up - in some synagogues your chidren would not be Jewish because that is a trait that comes from the mother - converted or not
2006-07-22 21:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were him, I would be more worried about you converting to Islam, and buying him a suicide bomb kit for an engagement present.
2006-07-22 21:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can one convert to being chosen? What you pay your money and then you are chosen too? Tell him he should not have fallen in love with a shiksa if he wanted Jew kids.
2006-07-22 21:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by akissbythetiber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you convert your beliefs simply because the person you love has those beliefs? That's odd. Good luck.
2006-07-22 21:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Landon H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concern should be over whether he expects you to serve in the Israeli National Guard, or not.
2006-07-23 04:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋