my boyfriend of four years have decide to call it quits with me. But it is can of weird because he will still call and as me how i`am doing and am i talking to someone yet. I expect for him to call now an then because we have a 1 year old daughter together. Now when he calls he be like I love you and i dont wany you to talk to no one else. Why break up with me if he was going to act like that.
2006-07-22 14:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by rasheida_bey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds slightly possessive. He seems like the type who wants to have his cake and eat it too by stringing you along and still be free to date whoever he wants. It's time for you to move on, don't let him try to control you from the sidelines. Talk to him about his behaviour, and ask him what's up. If he insists that he doesn't want to get back with you, then tell him that you don't want him to continue saying these things to you.
Good luck.
2006-07-22 14:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by HoneyB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just handing on to you for sex , when he can't find it any place else. Most people do not get married if they date or live together longer then 6 months. I would stop talking to him and make him start paying through the courts money for your chiled. Then fo find a guy wirth having.
2006-07-22 21:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he IS playing with your mind, and will continue as long as you allow him to continue it. If you are ready to move on with your life without him, then you need to tell him so. When he calls in the future then , only talk about things that concern your child. if he gets off that subject, you need to tell him you have to go now. Good Luck!
2006-07-22 21:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking advantage of your feelings for him and worse, your daughter.
He may or may not love you, and to what degree..... who knows? Maybe he doesn't know and is confused too. It is too easy for guys to keep that "i love you" thing going to keep you on a string. I think he's setting you up for when he needs you. But that doesn't mean he'll be there for you when you need him. Move on with the things you need and want. Be strong girl. You are right to question this.
2006-07-22 22:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by jdshep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he is not loving u but wants to have a contact with u for his pleasure.But u must know if u still love him like before.
Cause, ur hrt and mind are playing , allowing him to play with u.
2006-07-22 21:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by blessedwithsenseofhumour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are strange but u should let him be their was a reason yall broke up do u want to live like that again
2006-07-22 21:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl,, just dont answer his calls,, he has somebody else, and hes just keeping you as "plan b",,,,get your own plan,,
good luck
2006-07-22 21:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by MANGA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want u to have anybody else
2006-07-22 21:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋