Hi.Say you are passionate about one thing, and you work your entire life for the chance to do it. One day, you are given a great oppurtunity with great pay to do something you love. However, this choice is not convient for your significant other. What do you do? take the oppurtunity, and rish losing that person, or stay with that person, and lose your oppurtunity FOREVER, and end up with another job? Which is the best choice for a determined person who wants that person there as well? is this a fair ultimatum the person is putting on the relationship??
2006-07-22 14:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
True love will always want you to do what's best for you. It will not hold you back, in fact, sometimes, the love may want to follow you. If you have waited for this opportunity your whole life...TAKE IT. Who's to say that you will even love that person once you decide to stay. If it's really love, what ever you decide you will find out. You only get your dream job like once in a life time, I say take the job. if they love you, you and that person will find a way to work with your new schedule...even if you have to move away. LOVE ALWAYS FINDS AWAY. IF YOU LET SOMETHING GO AND IT COMES BACK TO YOU, IT'S TRULY YOURS. IF IT DOESN'T, THEN IT WASN'T MEANT TO BE. PRAY ON IT. Analyze your situation, write down reasons to stay, and reasons to go. Which ever one is most positive, that's what you should do. Don't just stay for love, you might wake up one day unhappy. Then it might turn into a blame game of it doesn't turn out like you thin it should. Don't let that happen...think about it.
2006-07-22 14:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by lil_l2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not give up the one thing that I admire most even if a certain person asked me to if they can't respect your dreams and goals then maybe you should give them up they shoul be able to understand that this one thing means so much to you and a true person would and they wouldn't hold you back on doing what you love most. This is a one in a life time chance and I would take it. Good luck.
2006-07-22 14:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take the true love hands down. If you lose your true love, your job will be useless to you because you will be miserable. A job is only a job. You were looking for a job when you found that one. But once your true love is gone, there is not another just waiting around the corner and trust me, it is LONELY out there.
2006-07-22 14:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alida2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true love, one relationship for a lifetime, I would take that. It's rare to find your true soul mate, and if you do find her, keep her like she was the brightest jewel in the world. The heck with ambition, true love is the greatest feeling in the world.
2006-07-22 14:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll never have to since my two true loves are money and power...and ruling the world, so I guess that's my THREE true loves. Well, and chocolate, so four. And sex. Ok, sex is number one, so I guess their not in the right order, but you get the idea.
2006-07-22 14:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
General Patton said never dig in, always take the offensive. But then I still live with my parents.
2006-07-22 14:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by robert f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't, but I've had it stolen from me by a woman I thought I loved.
2006-07-22 14:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he/she really, truly loves you, they will work with you to find a way to make it work for both of you so that you can be together AND fulfilled in your work.
good luck
2006-07-22 15:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋