2006-07-22 13:25:10 · 18 answers · asked by akissbythetiber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you dont just stay out of it because you will be the bad one in the end...you will loose a friend he will deny it and they will still be together..
2006-07-22 13:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by cassiday g 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh boy
1st u may want to go to him and tell him u saw him kissing another woman. Give him a chance to tell u whatsup, then maybe u can make him think if he doesn't tell u might.
U said she's ur friend( how close are u as friends) think about it for a moment if it was u would u want her to or anyone to tell u? then whatever ur answer is go with that.
I understand how u feel, if it was me I wouldn't know what to do either. But if she was a very close friend I would tell her because I love her and I'd want her to know that he's out kssing other women and who knows what else he's out doing and bring home to her?( STD)
2006-07-22 22:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you may not want to get involved at all. But if you do, you may want to ask if they are having marital problems, and maybe mention that you saw him at Starbucks. If she asks, then tell her about the kissing. But be prepared that she may be mad at you! It's just a reaction some women will have.
2006-07-22 20:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by meowww58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was her and you were my friend, I would appreciate it if you tell me the truth. The thing is, for a married man to kiss another woman in public is difficult unless most likely he has decided to leave his wife. Either way she needs to know. One she will be prepared for the worst, and two you are protecting her from any possible diseases.
2006-07-22 20:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lovetoloveyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you saw her husband kissing another woman at Starbucks.
Don't sugar coat it or make it into drama.
Why tell her? She needs to protect her health by knowing of his cheating so she can go get tested for STD's. Chances are if he is kissing this woman in public, he is ****** her in private.
2006-07-22 20:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very sticky situation. Your damned if you do and your damned if you don't. I would only tell your friend if ya'll are tight like that. I would also only tell her if you are absolutely sure. Positive of what you saw. Be prepared,because your friend will ask you questions. She is going to want to know how you know.
2006-07-22 20:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by mrsreadalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like this: "Friend, I saw your husband kissing another woman."
Simple.
2006-07-22 20:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her husband that you saw him and you think HE should be the one to tell her before you do.
2006-07-22 20:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go to the husband n basically tell him 'you're busted, pal!' and make him tell his wife what he was doing. he's the one who did wrong, and he needs to own up to it. then you support your friend in whatever choice she makes re: the matter.
2006-07-22 20:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by cola2sweet4words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell her straight up w/an anamous letter and a photograph then show her the proof on photo
2006-07-22 20:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by bonzeben200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather know. If it's a true friend, just let me know the truth.
2006-07-22 20:32:43 · answer #11 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋