My current partner would probally be very jealous, even ticked you might say. I have no interest in contacting my ex for non other then to see how things are going for him, I have no feeling left for him whatsoever and very commited to my current realtionship.
2006-07-22 13:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by iluvmypuggle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do people (like you) want to take a sh*t and step back in it?
2006-07-22 13:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely do NOT try to contact him. The very fact that you are thinking about contacting him and wondering how he is doing shows that you DO still have some kind of feeling towards him. The potential cost of contacting him could be much more than you and your current partner might be willing to pay. Trust me on this one.
2006-07-22 20:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jacky C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer really depends on your feelings toward your ex, if u 2 can get along well, then go ahead conact him! and if your current partner has a problem with it then u should keep your distance from your ex. just don let things get to complicated.
2006-07-22 20:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't risk a 9 yr realtionship just to see "what's up" with your ex.
2006-07-22 20:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. How would you feel if he contacted an old girlfriend of his?
some people are ok with that, but since you said your bf wouldn't be, then the answer is clear.
2006-07-22 20:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by ss98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong because it is disrespectful. I think you do have feelings and still and you are trying to convince yourself to make it okay. Be smart and leave your ex alone, dont open any unneccessary doors to drama.
2006-07-22 20:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a dude and he's a dude and your -ahem-" boyfriend" is a dude. Why don't y'all just get a few six packs and go fishing and leave all the "boyfriend" garbage where you can never find it again.
2006-07-22 20:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go right ahead, if ur current partner gets jelous... u know that, that may not be a good relationship, because they don't want you to communicate with anyone, and are limiting ur rights.
2006-07-22 20:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by alco19357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur committed to you current relationship don't have anything to do with your ex don't go behind his back and talk to your ex this would ruin what u have
2006-07-22 20:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to let sleeping dogs lie... You can see the dangers better than anyone. You KNOW the answer.
2006-07-22 20:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋