What would you do if...? Must read for all goof-uppers...?

Question

This is a disgrace to gay community but please take this question as if it happened to you.

What would you do if your uncle-in-law caught you watchin' him taking a shower?

Details:

*I am a full time nanny to their kids.
*You just got that urge that you can't help coz you know that all doors are open and he is naked with a huge stick.
*You talked to him after the incident.

Conversation:(After "it" happened)

He told me that he's gotta tell his wife. He is very open to gay people and told me that I need to come out of the closet and find some guys who's into that thing because he's not into it. He also told me to talk to my aunt about what I should do to tell the other people about me being gay.

I really am sorry to him and to the gay community. I just feel so down and don't know what to do. Maybe I need a rest. Okay...please answer possitively...

Answer 1

Though a little clumsy at the approach it sounds as if your uncle is very together. He wouldn't suggest you tell your aunt if he thought it was going to be a bad thing. It sounds as if he's very supportive, and your aunt will be to. You've apologized to him. Talk to your aunt and tell her what happened. Apologize to her. Be open, and be grateful you have family you can talk to.

P.S. It doesn't sound like you need a rest. If you were eyeballing you uncle it sounds like you need to get laid!

P.P.S. Do you think your family every suspected? Why was your uncle showering with the door open? That makes me curious. . .

Answer 2

hey man, get a grip first of all, the deed is done!
no need to be sorry to the gay community either, just take a deep breath.
Me and my sister were caught by my mother checking each others goods out, we were just looking, it was a natural curiosity we were 10 and 11.
old enough to know it was wrong, but we wanted to see what we both had.
so in walks mom her mouth drops open, long story short...we both got a long talking to and a spankin just to make sure we understood it was wrong.
i know i was humiliated, ashamed and confused i balled my eyes out for an hour or so, then went outside and played. it was never mentioned again.

so my advice to you is that everything seems really bad now, but it will get better. yep your business is out in the street, but it's saving you from hiding in the closet, right. talk to your family and tell them that you're sorry for how it happened, and that it won't happen again. but make the realize that you are who you are.
be strong young brother, good luck!

Answer 3

you watched somebody naked...ok big deal...no you shouldn't have done it but it's not the end of the world.....I think your uncle in law is showing poor discretion by telling his wife...it should be strictly between the 2 of you...but I applaud him for not taking advantage of you.....yes, you probably should let the world know that you are gay...but don't let him bully you into coming out totally if you're not ready.
btw peacerussel sounds like a much bigger fa g got than anyone else on this site....he should get professional help..not you.

Answer 4

you lil ******* you outta die you lil queer im tired of all you fags out there checkin me out its nasty i dont wont no hairy booty on me!!! By the way why would i wanna be with something thats trying to be like something that i dont wanna be with???
if you dont get it here it is if your male trying to act female but i cant stand female it makes no sense. or female trying to act like a man when i have no feelings for a man what hte heck is wrong with you lil twisted queers. you say hereditory i say you were dropped on your head as a child!!!! your lucky i wasnt your uncle i would have beat the gay outta you!!!@!

Answer 5

If worst comes to worst and your outed you will find support and friends in the gay community.
Tammi Dee

Answer 6

no big deal...just dont do it again!!